How To Keep Your Job

Keeping your job is not hard to do as long as you do those things in your control with intent. Having worked at over twenty different places myself before I had ten years in the workplace, I saw many people, including myself commit job suicide. I also watched people excel while seemingly doing little actual work, by doing a few important things correctly.

The real key in keeping your current job lies in remembering how you felt when you found out you were going to be hired. Did you arrive at your current position through luck or did you do your homework, and get the needed skills to win your job. Did you feel special when you were hired?

Were you excited and elated over the possibilities of your job, or is it just another job? Many of my early jobs were just another job. Walk out one door and in another door. If your skills are in demand everywhere, there is always someone hiring, because someone like my previous self is always leaving.

Do you appreciate the job you have, do you feel special doing it? Think of the other people you work with as if you were their boss. They are your competition, how do they feel compared to how you feel about yourself. Do your feelings about your job stand out from theirs?

your-job2If you are not doing anything different than everyone else is doing for the same position, whether you keep your job, or someone else does is a roll of the dice. You are really just holding a position, and from the companies perspective, whether it is you, or someone else in that position does not really matter. In other words you are expendable.

Many people are their own worst enemies when it comes to both enjoying and keeping their job. I doubt many of them even are aware that they are doing it. As an extreme example is the work group rebel. Rebels tend to disagree more about their work than any other personality. Dissent is a good thing until the rebel crosses the line and dissents not only about the way the job is done, but the job itself.

Remember why you were hired. What were your initial hiring criteria? You were hired for a specific set of skills that need to be done. Many people after they become comfortable with their work, start rewriting the rules they will work under, deciding that certain areas are part of their job, and other tasks suddenly are not. Essentially they rewrite their job requirements, generally to their detriment.

Taking on and completing an extra task or two is very important, and they do not have to be critical tasks. Find something that needs to be done and do it. Show you are willing to do a little more than everyone else. This shows you care, and you want to be successful. You do want to take on tasks that compliment what you are currently doing. Do not take try to take on tasks outside of your area of influence unless it is of great benefit to the company as a whole and your boss approves.

Your boss or those above your boss are not your enemies. Making your boss an adversary through your attitude, or actions is a sure way to start the process of looking for a new job. You boss and those above your boss need you as much as you need them. They can not be successful without you position being successful. Being abrasive, or difficult to approach is not a character trait you want from your bosses perspective. Your boss has his or her own problems same as you do. They do not want their job to be more difficult than it has to be.

Most people in their daily work, are not mindful of these few indicators of job success. Your boss will focus on what is important, and that changes all the time. They will remember when they have to make decision about you, what type of employee you are. The decisions your boss makes that effect you are your raise, advancement, opportunities, and contributions to the company. You want to be more than a random name drawn from a hat when it comes to your future.

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Carp & Catfish Throwing Stick For Soft Baits

Carp fishing with dough and other soft baits that carp enjoy is difficult at times. Too soft of a cast, and the bait flops at my feet. Too hard of a cast and my hook lands where I want it, but my bait goes thirty feet in the air and ten feet out. At times I think casting soft bait is an art form.

Fishing for Catfish I use chicken liver. Chicken liver seems to be a good all around Catfish bait, and works as well or better than some other baits. One of the problems with chicken liver is the fact it is liver. Chicken liver on a single hook makes casting an exercise in getting that chicken liver to the bottom in the same spot as the hook and sinker.

This was a problem in need of a solution. I started reading in the Carp fishing forums, and tackle vendors web sites to see what they had to offer.After some reading I learned about “Throwing sticks”, I decided I could make one to toss my own bait with that I would be happier with.

plastic-pipeMy first design was using the white pipe with an end cap. Of course using a tube has its flaws. The largest sized bait is limited by the tube size. Not to mention getting any distance in a throw is an awkward process. I cut the end cap off and glued it on using it as a cup instead. This worked, but left a lot to be desired because of cup walls held the bait inside.

sweat-stickThe second item I found is this gray and blue item. This is called a sweat stick, and is used on sweating horses. It is essentially an oversized shoe horn. While it worked, it was not the end all of bait sticks. The throwing distance is limited by design, and you have to be precise to get a good throw, without your bait or sinker falling off in mid throw.

dog-stickThe third, and I thought end all discovery may be familiar to you if you own a dog. It is a dog ball throwing stick. A tennis ball fits in the cup and when you use a throwing motion, the ball bounces away for your dog to chase. I thought it would be perfect and it is, if I want my bait to hit the water a few feet in front of me with sonic speed. The angle of the handle is not correct for a distance throw.

Next I thought I would put a spoon on the end of my now defunct plastic pipe and cap stick. I cut the cap off and tied a spoon on. The spoon stick was a big improvement. I had some control, and there was lots of room for bait and sinker. The straightness of the pipe made throwing a little awkward but it worked.

I found a no longer used garden water wand in the trash on day, and I knew I hit the jackpot. I tied the spoon on the wand, after cutting off the watering head portion. I had two design problems though. One was spoon slippage (nylon against aluminum), and the second problem was the bend of the wand. I solved these problems by putting a piece of old inner tube over the wand at the end where the spoon rested. I also placed the spoon on the other side of the bend, as it is in the picture.

spoon-stickSmall bread balls were flying over forty yards down the road, larger bread balls and stones flew as if the were catapulted and not thrown. Whole kernel corn went wherever I sent it, up to almost four ounces a throw if I wanted. It brought back memories of my childhood, hitting rocks and golf balls with a bat. Corn, liver, dough balls, minnows, worms, whatever I want to toss gently in the lake was now fair game.

This spoon throwing stick was simple to make. Total cost for me to make was $1.05 for the spoon (nylon and the sturdiest I could find) from wally world. The wand was a free grab from the trash, also for sale at previously named place for about five dollars, probably less at a garage sale. The string was lying around the house from another project.

chef-trickHere is a great Chef’s trick used for making hold able handles on all metal pans. You can use this to keep your string from rotting or coming apart. After tying the spoon on, I rubbed in as much vegetable oil on the string as the string would hold and placed it in the sun. The oil after a few days to a week hardens, and keeps the string from coming loose. Almost any cooking (not machine or automotive) oil will work.

Of course if you would rather own a hand made custom spoon throwing stick similar to mine in the picture (the green handled one), with materials I used, I am willing to make you one for a price of $99.99 with free shipping in the USA. A better idea is to do it yourself. Ten minutes to cut the wand head, another thirty minutes to tie the spoon on, and ten minutes to oil the string. With some careful shopping, and creative thinking, you should be able to make your own spoon throwing stick for less than $10.00 even if you have to buy the wand, spoon and string. Oh, and the Carp and Catfish will really could care less what it looks like, or if it matches your outfit.

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Personal Power Returned

I have written many posts talking around how to enjoy your life and how to be happy. In other posts I have touched on areas of personal life including stepping up and taking charge of the life you want and were meant to live. What I have not touched on is how to bring your personal power into your life. Instead I have circled around personal power and how to use it to better your life.

Family life, or what passes for family life is where our personal power is initially recognized or quashed. Unhealthy home environments cripple and skew us, and we do not even know it. Personal relationships also either promote or deny our personal power. Some of us choose to give up our personal power rather than leave an unhealthy relationship. What goes on in our own head and how others perceive us, either promotes or takes away our personal power. Those around us prefer we are clones of themselves, and do not want you to be different from them.

personal-powerThe worst offender and destroyer of our personal power is social conditioning. Watching any healthy normal ten year old, you see a powerhouse of energy and optimism. Six years later you see a child who has been changed into a timid, insecure shell of what they were. Media and peer pressure have drained away their personal power, and turned a ten year old kid who could rule the world into an unsure, insecure, overly sensitive young adult.

Some people go to extraordinary lengths to regain their personal power. They climb mountains, hike through deserts, dive to the bottom of the ocean, undergo drastic surgeries, mainly cosmetic. Other spend time with therapists and counselors working up to the point where they allow themselves to see how they can fix themselves. Yet the path to individual personal power can be made easier.

You do not have to take steps as drastic or dangerous as some people do to regain their personal power. You do have to make some choices and changes, firming up your resolve to regain what you lost. If you wish to reclaim your personal power and remake your life into what it should be, you can do it, you just need to know deliberate change is not easy.

Anyone who feels they have no personal power, or their power has been taken from them, feels it is difficult, almost impossible to retrieve their personal power. Whether you have given away your personal power or allowed to be taken from you, it becomes easy to reclaim your personal power once you decide you want it back. Of course someone does not want you to have it back and you must have resolve to impose your will in your life. At this point reclaiming and keeping your personal power becomes a test of will.

How do you start to reclaim your personal power? With small steps of course. You lost your personal power in small steps and regaining your personal power is done in small steps too. The first step is setting your resolve. There will be attempts to stop you and soften your resolve either directly or indirectly. You must decide to stand firm before you start your journey back.

Once you have set your resolve and acknowledged that there will be obstacles to overcome, pick something small, but important to you. It may be something as simple as allowing someone close to you to make a mistake on their own. It may be showing your child how to launder their own clothes, and allowing them to wear dirty, wrinkled clothes, believing you will cave in and begin to do laundry for them once more.

When you know you have taken back your personal power in your first small area, it is time to pick another. Do not try to go too fast, it took time to lose your personal power and it will take time to get it back. It is easer to move slowly with firm resolve than to lose your resolve because you tried to change everything in your life in one fell swoop. If you had the resolve to change everything at once, you would not be wanting to reclaim what is already yours. Trying to do too much at once is why most people fail. Go slow, and step firmly and allow your resolve to be your beacon.

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Carp bait you can make when there are no Carp

makebaitFishing a new lake is an experience in how to compete. Not competing with other fisherman, but competing with with the local food supply. I knew Catfish, Trout, and a hybrid fish named a Tiger Muskie were present, it seemed possible that Carp were around as food for the Tiger Muskie. I was wrong, there were no Carp to be found.

What there were in amazing numbers were Shad. These looked like thin silver and bronze Goldfish, but as I have never seen Shad before, I imagine they were a local variety. Thousands and thousands of minnows from an inch to perhaps three inches along the shallow shores of the lake.

Because I had some time to think about what to bring for bait to the lake, I took whole kernel corn, chicken liver, some hamburger meat mix, and a dough ball recipe I have made up that appeals to Carp here locally. I thought that even if there were no Carp, I was prepared for Trout, and Catfish. The Tiger Muskie were catch and release, and I did not want to spend money on the wire leaders, spoons, and lures to be able hook and land these toothy fish.

What I did not prepare for were the Shad. I knew when I saw bigger fish in the shallows, herding and charging the swarms of minnows that it was going to be a tough day fishing. It is very hard to entice fish to take your artificial bait when they have an endless supply of minnows to feed upon.

I fished shallows, and deeper water. While moving about I watched what baits different fisherman were using. I felt more confident, that if I caught even one fish, I would be one fish ahead of them. Like many people who want to fish, but do not think about fishing, they had wares from local stores. In their arsenal were jars of Norman’s never fail catfish bait, Steve’s smells like manure but still catches fish, and Marvin’s dead pickled minnows.

Store bought fish bait is about the same as buying a car. The car you buy is unique until you drive it off the lot. Then you realize that every third car is exactly like yours. Store baits are the same way, even chicken liver to some extent. On lakes with heavy fishing pressure, whatever you buy off the shelf gives off a, “Danger Will Robinson” alert as soon as it hits the water.

My hamburger meat mix, and chicken livers were ignored by everything except the Crayfish. I knew Crayfish were present, but I had no idea they were so numerous. This indeed was making a Carp fishing trip hard, being there were no Carp, literally tons of minnows, and aggressive Crayfish.

All I had left was my dough bait. I knew it should be attractive to Trout because it is corn based, but probably so does almost every off the shelf Trout bait. I did not think crayfish would care for it, but I was not sure. That left me with using dough bait hoping to entice a Catfish or two.

Putting a dough ball on a bare hook was working but not too well. I was not sure if I was losing my dough ball to the flooded bushes and grasses or Crayfish, but I was losing dough quickly. One of the things people do in this situation is put something hard on their hook first and mold their other bait around it.

I tried putting corn on first, but the dough was firm and crushed the corn. Next were some corn pops I carried along just in case. They worked, but did not seem to provide any inspiration for the fish. Maybe corn was a danger signal too. I had some chocolate puffs too, and they were the magic I needed though I am not sure why. I caught the only two fish of the day, both catfish, one about four pounds and the second about eight pounds. Very healthy, fat and well fed.

In every lake or pond you fish there are certain flavors fish can not resist. I think it is more a nutrition thing than good taste, because I have found I catch less but bigger fish using tailored dough ball ingredients. If you think and experiment, I believe it is likely that you can easily develop you own killer bait for use where you fish. Throw what local fisherman tell you out the window, unless they have the fish to back up their statements. Every fish needs something they have to search out. When you provide that food, whether or not it is a natural bait, you are on your way to catching fish while others fail to get a bite.

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Karma

Karma, depending on how open you are to possibilities, and attuned to what really goes on in the world is either nonsense or fact. Karma is one of those life forces net everyone agrees may exist. karma is either real for you or it is not.

What is karma exactly is another question. Some who are familiar with the Christian bible relate karma to a biblical verse(es) about the sins of the father being visited on the sons down to the third generation. Other people think of karma as something that is paid back in your next life for things done or not done in this life. Some see karma as a type of immediate feedback machine. Others see karma as lifetimes of progression to an end state. Of course some see karma as an invention of the ignorant.

For myself and my world Karma is all those things and more. It seems obvious that because we are eternal beings as the bible and most major religions hold to be true, it certainly plausible that what I may do in this live could have consequences that follow me into future lives. Perhaps I am to do, or did something that makes a change to the world of the future. I will be born into a world where I live with the effects of the change I incurred in this lifetime.

karmaOf course believing in reincarnation lends itself to thinking it is viable that what I do, or do not do in this life, is either rewarded or punished in a like fashion in a future incarnation. For example if I were to murder someone, and was found not guilty in a court of law, I am subject to the karmic effects of the murder I committed. On the other hand, if I were to live a saintly life, I will be rewarded in my next life for what I accomplished in this life.

Believing in karma as a function of reaching an end state of perfection brings a belief that I am mobile in each lifetime and either have climbed up or climbed down the karmic ladder. Living a good life in this lifetime moves me up a rung on the ladder when I live the next life. Doing poorly with this life, drops me one or more rungs on the karmic ladder.

Of those who believe karma does not exist except in peoples minds, it is hard to comprehend for those that have a belief system how karma does not play a part in ones ultimate fate. After all one is judged on ones actions and if that is not a function of karma with finality, I am at a loss to think of what may be a refection of karma. Calling a cat a dog does not change the name or nature of the animal.

For myself, I see all these beliefs or reflections of what karma is and how it functions very limiting. We like to categorize everything in our life, placing everything in it own little compartment. Most of the time how we categorize those things in our life makes little difference. With a belief system, or something as dynamic as karma, that is like classifying a brilliant diamond on one facet, ignoring or choosing to be ignorant to the idea that there is more than what we see or choose to see.

How about the possibility that karma is everything and more than I mentioned? What if karma is dynamic, far reaching across generations, and does move you and I up and down the karmic ladder of life, and also provides real time feedback on how we are managing our spiritual life? This more holistic approach is more rational than trying to place something like karma in a little box on the shelf.

Right now, if I am lonely, feeling lost, separated, or life just is not going where I want my life to go, it is immediate karmic feedback on how I am managing my life? Perhaps I am intentionally ignorant, or blissfully unaware that my actions at this moment, or this day, affect how the world interacts with me tomorrow, and how I interact with it? It is so much easier to find an external source for our problems, or life struggles than it is to take some introspective time and determine what we are doing or not doing to create the world we are living in at this moment. Why not take some time to ponder what you personally are doing to make your world a world you want to live in, instead of settling for a world you must endure?

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