Oil, Gangs, Drugs, and Us

Every city, every state, every nation has one or more pockets or areas where life for those living in that particular area is a lot less than the norm. People living in these areas, namely a ghetto or slum do not have the option of moving somewhere else and living a better life. They are glued in place for many different reasons and can not simply leave to a better life.

For most of the world governments or cultures, this is acceptable. In every large city I have been to, one or more areas exist where no one goes unless they have to because unemployment is high and violent crime is higher. Drugs and those things that follow drugs are rampant. The level of violence is extreme and the presence of any meaningful authority is lacking.

dead_endIt is a human condition for people living outside of these areas to allow those conditions to exist. As long as they do not exist to close to where one is living. When the sprawl of run down neighborhoods, rampant drug use, and gangs get too close for comfort, those that can pack up and move to somewhere they consider safe.

For those people who can not pack up and leave, they are forced to adjust or adapt to the new reality of what their neighborhood has become and new conditions where survival takes on a new meaning.

No child is born anywhere in the world where the parents warmly announce their child is going to be the most powerful drug lord in the city. No parent dreams of the day when their child is the leader of the most vicious gang in town. No parent looks forward to the day when their child moves out to the street beaten down by life and hard drugs, or possibly maimed or murdered before adulthood arrives.

What about the other places in the world where some of these problems are not present in a form we recognize? For Iraq, Iran, anywhere in the Middle East, Africa, South America, and other places not mentioned? Most of these areas have something the rest of the world wants. Oil is the obvious want, but there are also diamonds, gold, cheap labor, or timber.

In these places in the world same as the bad neighborhoods there are people who want a better life. Perhaps, as in the case of the oil rich countries more people enjoy a lifestyle beyond that of their parents or grandparents. It does not take a lot of imagination or foresight to understand that in the case of an oil rich country that wealth and wealthy life style is finite.

What will these areas do when the worlds focus turns somewhere else because the oil is gone? Oil producing countries are making desperate choices now hoping those choices will ensure their future when the oil runs dry. It is easy to condemn selling drugs, belonging to gangs, or prostitution. For people desperate for money to have a life that in a skewed way meets the idea of the american dream violence is the only way for them to have a chance at a life not comprised of grinding poverty in a forgotten wasteland.

Despite our efforts we have not managed to raise all peoples lives to a level where drugs, and violence exist for any purpose than creating some amount of wealth for someone disadvantaged. Taking this thought and applying it to the Middle East is the same situation in the making. People know the oil supply is finite, oil wells will run dry. People living in oil rich countries know they have little else to offer the world. Opportunity does exist due to climatic conditions to create alternate sources of income. There is not a whole lot that can be done with sand or salt water in the Persian Gulf that can not be accomplished closer to home, no matter where home is.

These people right or wrong are exhibiting behavior comparable to behavior forgotten neighborhoods. Gang have guns and knives, countries have rockets and bombs. Gangs thrive or survive by preying on the vulnerable. Gangs take by force what they can not acquire by any other means. No matter what the outward facade is, there is one reality for oil rich countries.

Oil is going to dry up, and a world supplying economic infrastructure for whatever reason is not present to shift the creation of wealth to another venue. It does not take a lot of imagination to look at the worlds lading countries, see how they manage their wastelands, and know that one can expect even less from them when dealing with you and your country.

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Your Body and Your Serious Doctor’s Visit

As you cruise into your thirties, you start to notice that possibly you are mortal like everyone else. Nothing specific happening between you and your body, but now and then there are little signs that you are not a teenager any longer. Some things unlike childhood days where you played all day long. You can not multi-sport unless you do it all the time. If you eat as if you are seventeen, you pay a price later in the day or night, or the next day.

One other thing you may have noticed is you start to pay a little more attention to your overall health. You may decide it is time to see a doctor for a first in a long time checkup. Perhaps you really aren’t feeling as good as you used to and you want to find out why. Want to or not, sooner or later you find yourself making that first phone call to the doctor.

Initially when you visit your Doctor, he or she will may some pretty firm ideas on how you are tending to your body. You will be quizzed on what and how you eat, exercise, sleep and a few more intimate questions. It is a good idea to do some thinking about your life style before you are asked these questions. Your doctor can only make decisions on the information you supply. Lying to your doctor, or letting your doctor guess is not the best course of action. Your doctor has heard it all and there probably nothing you can say that will be a surprise or shock.

healthIn my experience we tend to lie to our doctors. We modify our life story as we tell the doctor what we are doing or not doing. If we drink every day, we tell the Doctor we have a few drinks a week. If we live on coffee and doughnuts we modify that to two small cups of coffee and an occasional doughnut. Our fifty step daily walk from our car to the job, or store becomes a twenty minute stroll, or perhaps a daily mile jog.

While it feels good to tell our doctor we are living healthier than we do, it is a mistake to do so. First off your doctor will order up blood tests. These tests are thorough enough to separate fact from fiction of your story. At the very least they are precise enough to raise some doubt about your real life. The downside is, when your doctor questions you again, and you again fudge how you are living, you are painting a picture of your over all health that is not accurate.

It is no secret that we tell little half truths and partial omissions every day. Mostly we do this to keep the peace or save someone’s feelings. We all do it to some extent and we all except that everyone around does it too. There are too places where you need to be brutally honest in what you admit to. The first place is between your ears. If you can not be true to yourself and acknowledge what you know to be true, your life is less than should could be. If you are not truthful with your doctor, your doctor can not be as effective in helping you as they could be if you tell the truth.

As your life progresses from this point on, you will discover there are things you never knew about until now. Suddenly pizza gives you heartburn, and too much sitting makes one knee stiff. You may discover are more serious problem, as in a ‘health condition’.

Welcome to the real world. Like it or not, all of us as we age, discover body problems we never knew we had. We slowly start to fall apart. We share this with everyone who ever drew a breath. Most health problems you will have are not new problems. In fact they have probably been present since the day you were born. Until now they stayed in the background unnoticed. It is a tough thing to accept at first that like everyone else, you are slowly getting older, and eventually like everyone before you, you will get old

Acceptance is taking a positive approach to a life situation you can not change, denial is putting off until tomorrow what is easier to start accepting today. Be truthful to your doctor and yourself when it comes to you. It is natural that sooner or later, something about your body will not work as well as it used to. Do yourself a favor at the Doctor’s office; tell the truth about you.

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Zenwalk Linux, Grub 2, Wireless, Yada, Yada

It has been a busy couple of Linux weeks starting with saving a Windows based Laptop which the owner forgot the administrator password. While they were doing the right thing not using the administrator account for every day computing, forgetting the Windows password is a pretty daunting problem for a Windows user.

I do not remember an easy fix for restoring the administrator password. I did have a few live Linux cd’s along, and one I could use to fix the Windows lost password problem. I inserted the live cd into the laptop, and in another ten minutes the administrator password was set to something hopefully more memorable.

I took off Debian Linux from my laptop and installed Zenwalk Linux this week. My wants are pretty simple lately, and Zenwalk Linux idea of one application for each task suits me well. I have also been tinkering a little more with the configuration files and scripts, and Zenwalk is a good system to tinker with because everything is so clear and well written. Some Zenwalk Linux desktop images in place of a picture.

Click to read more about this amazing desktop!

Click to see more of this amazing desktop!

Zenwalk Linux has a pretty default desktop called the XFCE environment. I prefer XFCE because I find right clicking anywhere on the desktop for the menu is easier and faster than clicking on the start button equivalent, although it is also present top and bottom of the screen. Plus the XFCE desktop is simple to configure and has some amazing theme creators who do desktops that look like this!

I was also asked if I had time, would I the forgotten admin’s password laptop other problems. Watching the laptop run without any virus protection installed, it was obvious what the problems were. I did not want to take the time to fix it, so I pulled off the files they wanted to save once again using a Linux Live Cd and saved their files to a memory stick I had with me.

I reinstalled Windows, replaced their files, and strongly suggested they use an anti virus product, or stay off of anything by mainstream web pages on the net, and not click on every pop up. Compared to a virus protection program that may not seem much of a defense although I used XP for a few years without virus protection and got along just fine. Some common sense goes a long way in keeping your computer running well.

Someone sent me an email recently telling me how I should protect myself and my finances when using online banking. The email suggested that I watch for ‘https’ which is a secure connection, and when done, clean out my browsers cache, cookies, and history. The person resending the email is not aware of Firefox Web browser and its option to clear private data. Perhaps other web browsers are doing the same data clearing too now. Personal privacy is a big issue these days and using the internet smartly should be everyones priority.

I would have added to the email if I had sent it on my thoughts about wireless connections. Many wireless internet connections are little better than standing at a bank teller’s window with a crowd of people behind you. If you are doing anything that you do not want the world to know about, do not use a wireless connection. There are some available programs that any twelve year old can run that will crack your wireless WEP Encryption a lot faster than you can set up your wireless connection. That is if you have your wireless connection secured. It has been my experience that only about half of all wireless connections use encryption.

I installed Puppy Linux on two older memory (usb) sticks, showed two people how to boot their computer off a usb stick. I used disk encryption on the Puppy Linux portion of the memory sticks and explained anything they saved on the memory stick is fairly safe is lost. They thought that it was pretty neat, running their computers off a usb memory stick. Linux is worth checking out and learning about.

I made changed my boot loader from Lilo to Grub 2 today and I spent some time figuring out why Lilo would find my Windows Vista partition and Grub 2 would not. I found a good fix on the Zenwalk website in the Zenwalk Companion section. Grub 2 is pretty slick. I can’t say I examined how Grub set things up, but in Grub 2 there are separate configuration files for each operating system which makes life easier by default. One of the best things about light Linux distributions such as Zenwalk is the questions are more precise and the answers are correct more often.

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People Not Like You

We were talking about young children and the transition from childhood into the adult world. One short comment trade that caught my attention was how children have to be watched and told when to take baths or showers. Left to their own devices, children find many more important things to do with their time than get cleaned up.

That led my thinking to the middles ages, or before the industrial revolution. Watching old movies about those times leaves one with the impression that hygiene came before everything else. Impeccable clean clothes were the norm of the day, and everyone had many changes of clothes. Right after clothing the impression that bathing was a number one priority of everyone no matter their status in the particular society in which they lived.

Westerns are pretty much the same. People are always clean and neat, and must spend a lot of time grooming themselves because rarely do you see a hair out of place. Westerns to their credit usually keep their characters in the same clothes unless there was a reason they changed them, perhaps someone held them up at gunpoint and took their clothes.

The most recent King Kong movie was a let down in the clothing and grooming department. People on a lost island with the heroine taken by Kong, and hauled through miles and miles of jungle. A few animal fights ensue along the way, yet barely a wrinkle appears on her clothing. Facial dirt was applied with the care of a makeup artist.

Look 2As children grow into adults, it is at times almost impossible to have them clean themselves completely. When they take their shower, they skip the soap. When they actually use soap, shampoo never touches their scalp.

Over months Teens start to notice that the other sex. Suddenly clean is the word of the day. Spotless clothing is a requirement. Having “The Look” or something close to it is mandatory. While no one actually knows what having the look is good for, everyone in that age group wants it.

Clothes and accessories are really nothing more than clothes and accessories. If you want to live in a particular circle where clothes and having the right look is everything, clothes and accessories are everything. You are judged, moved up, and moved back down again, accepted or shunned by your peer group solely on how you look.

If you are not part of, “The Look” group, how you look matters, but not as much as what you are as a package. If you are a sharp dresser and have some personality going for you, life can be pretty good if you are smart about how you manage your life. If you are a little more to the average group, life is still pretty good.

If you can’t manage looking somewhat pleasing, life can be painful. Some people are born with problems they can not fix. They are too short, too tall and gangly, considered too big, too ugly, too odd, or too slow.

These people do not quite make the average for whatever reason. They only fit in if you allow them too fit in. When you see someone who is not quite right what is your first reaction? Do you internally gasp and think how wrong they are because they are any number of things that makes them less than acceptable? Or do you see another human being who is trying to live life the same as you are?

I fear at times I am too different. I normally see another human being with their own troubles and their own ways of dealing with what occurs in their day to day life. I know these folks generally see another human being in front of them. Not someone who is placed in a grading system they made up. It is sad; some people are desperate to be recognized as being, though they expect rejection from the encounter.

Do you know your uncontrolled expression is immediate feedback about what you think about to the person appearing in front of you? Do you see a person, or do you see someone who is not as good as yourself because they will never be able to have “The Look”, or even come close to it?

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Changing Your Life to Really Live

John sees his life as a struggle. One day after the next John feels the weight of the world on his shoulders. Going to work every day at a job he does not like. Getting laid off or fired every other year does not help. Wondering daily John never knows how he is going to pay his bills next month. John’s marriage is constantly in jeopardy, almost always on the rocks. He talks about getting divorced and starting over. Then he talks about wife and his three kids.

Carol sees her life as one of always coming in second. She was born a female in what she sees as a man’s world. She never considers herself pretty, and says she had few friends during her school years. Carol works as a waitress in a local coffee shop. She has two kids and wants to better herself, but Carol says she can’t find a way to take care of her kids, earn a living, and go to school too.

Frank worries about his health. Poor health seems to be the norm in his family. Frank says most of his family has health problems ranging from minor acid reflux to the very serious cancers. Then Frank said he had an uncle die from drinking, and aunt die from a vein disease. Frank eats a lot of fast food, drinks a little too much now and then, and sleeps a little less than he should. In Franks eyes, he is going to die young anyway, so what does it matter how he lives.

Looking inVictor was born without much hope in his life. His mother had him when she was fifteen. His Dad may be alive – somewhere, or maybe dead. He does not remember ever meeting his Dad. Victor had trouble in school because he started school not speaking english and it was hard to keep up. Some kids made fun of him. One day Victor said he knew that he wanted a better life than his friends and neighbors on his street have. Living a life of selling drugs, violence, and shooting is not a life to have as far as Victor is concerned.

Even though these people and their lives are on different life paths, they seem to be locked into living the life they have right now. These folks feel this is their lot in life, each one wants something better, but lacks that little something to go out and get it, and has put changing their into the ‘only a dream’ category.

Life can be described as a challenge, struggle, experience, useless, or any of a thousand labels. These labels describe what we think our life is is, not what it may really be. There is a silly home poker game usually played when drinking. Each player puts money in the pot and is dealt one card face down. The card is then lifted and held to each players forehead without the card owner seeing their card.

A round or two of betting follows where the bets are made going by the card each player sees on other players foreheads. Whoever has the highest card against their forehead after the betting wins the money. The game is funny to watch, and may be funny to play too depending on how much you enjoy gambling.

Each of us plays a life based form of this funny poker game. We go through our life with a sign we do not see telling others what we have decided our life is. We have each created our own life and we can change our lives at will. Changing our life sign takes will power and endurance mixed with determination and creativity. Sometime it is not easy to change because we do not know where to start, but if we keep trying to change we will change and usually for the better.

Most people live life in with their sign on their forehead to show to the world. They either do not know or forgot the words on their sign can be changed any moment. If you are going through life with a sign having words you are not happy with, get out a can of spray paint, some lettering, and put words on the sign that describe the life you think you want to have. Once you know what you do not want, getting to what you do want becomes easier. Don’t settle for what your life is if you want something different for your life.

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Solve a Crossword Puzzle

I wrote a post about how playing logic or puzzle games help in making better life decisions. If you are a successful game player you make good decisions. One decision leads a second decision, and then a third decision, to the end. Games like logic puzzles or chess have distinct points where if another choice had been made, the outcome of the game would have been different.

Solving a Crossword Puzzle is about guessing correct words left to right and up and down. While this sounds like it would make a puzzle harder, it helps make the puzzle easier to solve. Sometimes solving the clue is easier as a word I can fill in going across makes the word in the up and down direction easier to guess. Of course the opposite is also true.

I like to guess across clues first, filling in words that I know are correct. With online puzzles, correct letters are black, and wrong letters are red. When I end up at the last across clue, I go to the top of the puzzle and start with the clues for the down words.

I find it is easier to guess more down words because the across words give me hints as to whether the word I am thinking of is correct or not. If the clue is: Sport With a Ball, see if any letters of the across words are filled in. Having even one letter, helps decide whether the word is Tennis, Basketball, Soccer. If a down letter is a K, guessing ‘basketball’ is a easy because of the letter K.

Plural clues also hold secrets. If a clue is plural, for example: “Red birds”, the answer will also be plural, perhaps, ‘Robbins’. On the other hand if the the clue is not plural, say the clue is: “Firehouse Dog”, the word usually will be singular such as ‘Dalmatian‘, and not ‘Dalmatians’.

Google search result

Google search result

For the easier puzzles, clues and answers are pretty direct. As in my examples, word answers have a direct relationship with clues. In more difficult puzzles this is not true. Puzzle creators will mix up direct clue and answer relationships with vague indirect relationships. For example a clue, ‘water bird’, may turn out to be, ‘duckboat‘, and not ‘woodduck‘.

Another good trick is how we spell words. You do not know the answer, but looking at the letters you have helps. While you may not know the word, you know certain letter combinations go together. For example at the beginning of a word you have a blank space followed by the letters TR. Think about what letters generally are used before letters TR. Generally they are the letter S, or a vowel, maybe an A. Guessing what letter usually is next to a letter or few letters helps you solve clues you may not otherwise get.

Letters above or below the word you are trying to guess helps too. For example you think the correct word for a clue is, ‘fishing‘. It fits the spaces you have for the words, and it is the only word you can think of for the clue. When you place the letters in the boxes in your mind you notice that the letter below the S in fishing is an X. There is a chance either the word, ‘fishing’ is the wrong word, or the word with X is not a word. It is possible the S and X is an acronym, or letters of a phrase or organization.

Days of the week are also important. I find with major newspaper puzzles, Monday puzzles are the easiest to solve and Sunday puzzles are beyond my current skills. If you have never done crossword puzzles before don’t give up, and don’t be hard on yourself. I found crossword puzzles get easier with time and practice. Search the internet for easy puzzles when starting out.

Doing at least one puzzle a day helps a lot. Your brain has to dust off wiring you may not have used in a long time. As you use that part of your brain more, you will get better. Your local library, book store, or the internet are great resources.

Look for the dictionary, and games sections in the library or bookstore. Crossword dictionaries are for crossword puzzles and are similar to regular dictionaries but without definitions. Instead these dictionaries have lists of different words and may have the word you want. Books available that provide more help in learning how to solve crossword puzzles than I have listed here. Don’t forget the internet, search engines are our friends.

Trying to solve crossword puzzles can seem intimidating when you first start. You are presented with a box of squares and clues that seem impossible to answer. Life is like this, we have a few obtuse clues and a bunch of empty squares we are not sure what to do with. Playing crossword puzzles helps you solve those empty life squares too.

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