Everyone wants to know about Law of Attraction, or LOA. Some people want to prove LOA is nonsense. A few well meaning people and a few scammers want to make money from the ‘idea’ of LOA. Other people want to know how to make LOA to work for them. Some people are unsure what LOA really is, and how to apply it to their lives.
They have a vague idea of LOA from snippets here and there, but not enough of an idea to really know what LOA is or how it works. Reading the rest of this post will change all that, and you will become your own LOA expert.
Here is a simple example for you to do to help you understand LOA in action.It will take either doing the task, or pretending to do the task, which ever works best for you. However doing it works better.
Take a blank sheet of printer paper and something to write or color it with. Sit down at a desk or table with your paper and pen until you are satisfied with what you have done to the sheet of paper, or until the paper is beyond recovery. There are no extra points for artistry. Same for making something you are not so proud of. As long as you try is what matters most.??What you did to the paper is generally how LOA works in our lives. We each create our own world to some extent. We are like the paper. We have some pre-imposed constraints in our world. We are also like the pen, pencil, crayon, or marker.
You choose your world beyond the restraints imposed by the paper by changing and modifying your world. LOA in your life is you being the paper, and at the same time you are the pen or marker that can changes the paper into something else.
Real world examples of LOA in action are easy to find and relevant to you right now. People like you and me, and everyone else all have links to LOA, even though we may not know we do. LOA was not just invented, nor has it been hidden away in a treasure chest, as a dusty tome of arcane knowledge. LOA does need some help from you to really work. LOA needs your help to help you to be successful in your life.
First and foremost, you must have a strong Desire for something. If you have no strong Desire, your wants changes from hour to hour, and day to day. Weak Desires float into and out of your world when there is no strong Desire.
Determination needs to be present. Without Determination, there is no Desire to accomplish any but those most immediate goals that take minimum effort. You need to be determined for LOA to happen in your life.
Intent is required for LOA to be effective. There are many things we have a Desire for, and for some of those things we are Determined. If you do not have Intent, Desire and Determination mean little. Intent is a glue holding everything together.
Focus is something you have to apply. If you are too distracted to stay Focused on getting what you want, it usually will not happen. If Focus is not present, it is easy to make decisions or not make decisions, that take you farther away from your goal, and not closer to it.
Lack of Will Power gives you the strength to not give up. Most people think they do things by will power. Will Power on its own is useless. If you depended on Will Power to get you through life, you would not be reading this unless it is at a library for free. Will Power means making the choices because you want to. Lack of Will Power is setting aside what you want at the moment for what you want in the future.
Last but not least you need to be flexible and adaptable. Flexibility and adaptability is what makes immigrants successful. People arrive in our country not speaking a word of English, and looking like they came from somewhere else. If you could see them a few months later, you would be surprised. They look like they belong here, they are making a living, and they are happy. They have been flexible and adaptable enough to find a way to thrive.
Every successful person uses LOA in some form or another. They put all their tools in place, they use them, and they refuse to leave the path they have set out on. This is not how LOA works in a hyped up scammers version of LOA. This is real LOA in action. While the media would have you believe you something and suddenly you have everything, it just isn’t so.
You have to want, and you have to use the tools I wrote of that we all have. You have to apply them and go forward against all adversity. Finally while you feel you may be losing ground or net getting what you want, you have to dig deep and believe in yourself.
You were born with everything you need for LOA to bring you almost everything you desire. You may fall short of some goals you set for yourself. No one can have everything. You will find you are much closer than you were before you started applying the tools that allow LOA to happen!


Relationships are rarely the ideals we like to think they are. No one is out there waiting to spend their life filling our every whim and desire. Even if someone were to try they would fail, for as soon as we have everything, we want something more. Relationships are the ultimate learning and proving ground. Whether they last a month or a lifetime, they are an arena where our souls are bared, and our emotions are on the line. What happens next decides whether the relationship is a success or not.
I made a joke to the woman about hearing the stampede of feet coming towards the exit to help when a man showed up and said he would be more than happy to help me load up. He pulled my cart out to my truck, helped me load up, and asked if I could manage unloading by myself. I told him thank you for the help, and yes, I could manage the unloading myself.
Your life away from your home until now was always changing, but you came home to the routine of your life, whatever that may be. Now something is not working, and it does not make sense when you think about, because until now life was good, and it makes no sense all of a sudden.