Dancing Bears We Never See

I was reading about the Rihanna Umbrella nonsense about one of her songs with the evil lyrics the song contains. Someone has a wild imagination and too much time on their hands. There was a bright side to skimming the story though.

Reading that dribble led me to think about a trip to a park a few years back. I had taken two of my Grandsons to a park. I looked around at all the people at the park with their families enjoying the afternoon and enjoying being with each other, having fun. There were families who were at the park, but no having fun and definitely not enjoying each others company.

The youngest Grandchild’s focus was on perceived ‘Gang Bangers’ (his words). He thought the park was full of them to the exclusion of everyday families enjoying the nice weather, and warm lazy day we had. He was so focused on Gang Bangers real or imagined, he became anxious. This Grandson sure either we were going to be attacked because we weren’t part of a Gang, or a gunfight was going to break out at any second and we would be in the crossfire.

The other Grandson was pretty quiet for the most part. It took a little while to figure out why. He was enthralled with all the young, his age, women at the park. Those young Women were all he could see. He was oblivious to families, ‘Gang Bangers, and the afternoon.

Of course I noticed a few young men who could have been gang members, and I certainly noticed more than one or more pretty women. If the Grandkids noticed anything other than what they were focused on they did not mention it.

I am sure everybody reading this has watched at least one, “Men in Black” movie. The movie is loosely about aliens in New York, along with the alien airport situated among millions of New Yorker’s who never seem to have noticed. Those few who did notice had memories erased. The Men in Black were right there with their memory erasers, ensuring the secret did not get out.

I remember a watching video (maybe 2 if I have them mixed up) where you are told to watch how many times a basketball ball is passed back and forth in a group setting. After the video is over, you read a Dancing Bear waltzed through the group, and myself like most people do not see it. I had to watch the video a number of times because when I was not focusing on the ball being passed, it was incredible how obvious it was.

In a recent movie where Jeff Bridges plays a worn out Country Singer who finds something good for once. Along the way, Bridge’s character loses a four year old boy in a mall setting. Out of desperation he informs mall security, and the first question mall security asked is, “What was the boy wearing?” Of course Jeff’s character did not know, he was focused on the boy and not his clothes until that moment.

Speaking of credibility, the net is also full of documented cases of how poor we are when it comes to being an eye witness. If you find that idea odd, think about someone close to you, and what they were wearing the last time you saw them.

Why this happens is to keep us from being overwhelmed by everything happening around us. We create an idea of how everything should be and that is what we see. In the example of the people passing the ball back and forth we do not expect to see someone in a bear suit dancing through the group, so we do not. What clothes someone is wearing are not as important as what their expression is, or how and what they are saying, so we block it out.

This idea really has me wondering how much happens around us that we never notice because it is something we do not expect to see. Maybe those few moments in our life where we witness something we can not explain, an apparition, ghost, monster, whatever it is, maybe they are more common than we think. Maybe because we do not expect to see anything unusual we do not?

The same applies to what some of us read. Two people can read the same small book, and one person struggles to get through it, while the second person another wonders if they ever really will get through the book with all the amazing insight the pages contain.

The same idea also applies to our world and our problems. We see our problems the way we have always seen them. We solve them in whatever manner we have always solved problems. It works so why change it.

What would happen if when the next problem happens, we look for a Bear dancing through the center? You may not see a Bear, but when the same type of problems repeat over and over like a television rerun, perhaps trying to see it as if you have never had the problem before will help you see it in a new way?

Maybe after seeing the problem in a new way, a new solution will be found and the problem will go away for good? Maybe better yet, looking for the dancing bear in the problem may lead to the realization that the problem is not a problem at all, but rather an opportunity?

A problem turning into a dancing bear situation is definitely something we are not used to seeing. Perhaps we need to start looking for the dancing bear. Who knows where it will lead if we solve a few problems and then start looking for dancing bears other places.

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Control Your Online and Mobile Email Inbox

I spent a small part of the last week trading email with someone who’s online email was being overrun by spam. Their email inbox was out of control and they did not know how to fix their problem.

By referring them to the links below, they cut their spam problem from over eighty Spam Mails a day to less than three.

They now feel they empowered using their Email rather than overwhelmed by it. They are now in control of their inbox, and do not have to sift through tons of spam to find  the emails they wish to read.

I wrote this up to provide you with a resource you can use too to help you gain control over your Yahoo or Windows-Live-Hotmail email account.

Below are links, and information about the links to Yahoo and Windows-Live-Hotmail.

Following the links will help you with organizing and accessing your email, address book help, sending files, help with assorted problems and errors, and of course simple chatting.

Yahoo Email Yahoo’s help is mostly on one page making it easier to navigate.

This is a help page for Yahoo Classic email if you use the Classic version.

This is a help page for All-New Yahoo email for those on the bleeding edge.

Yahoo for Android, and Iphone if you want mobile mail too.

Windows Live Hotmail

High level overview for Windows-Live-Hotmail issues and help to include other Microsoft products.

Spam control help screen for Windows Live Hotmail created to help you take charge of your Windows Live Hotmail.

For keeping track of your email conversations. This page will help you arrange your Hotmail or Windows Live email accounts into conversations arranged by subject so you can  all emails on the same subject grouped together.

This is a link to help you access and manage your Windows Live Hotmail account through Outlook.

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Windows and Linux on Your Computer 3

Below are instructions I feel everyone should accomplish each week if their computer is used daily and online, especially for general web browsing. Ignoring them works for a while, but eventually a problem happens or some program sneaks its way to your hard drive, and then instead of a small problem such as a discovered Trojan Virus, you now have an inoperable or unrecoverable Operating System.

No matter whether you are using Windows, Linux or dual booting your computer, first and formost backup your important information to some type of removable media, ie, usb drive, cd, dvd, etc. If you accomplish this step and nothing else, at least then if your system crashes, you have your important files.

The Windows portion below was written for Computers using Windows XP. If you are using Vista or Windows 7, the process is very similar and you should be able to accomplish the steps below. Fair warning, if you are using Windows set aside time when you are not using the computer but will be around it. These steps may take a few hours, and you can not do anything else with your computer while they are running.

Windows TLC

These steps should be completed weekly if Windows is used daily and online. If Windows is used less often, the frequency may be reduced proportionately.

1. Do a complete virus scan on all hard drives and usb drives. Run any anti spyware programs you may be using.

2.  Check and clean out your internet settings. Ensure your firewall is on, Browser settings at least to medium, accept third party cookies is off at a minimum. It is a good idea to remove cookies, and flush cache if you have he option.

3. Defragment the hard drive. Using your mouse click on: Start: All Programs -> Accessories -> System Tools -> Disk Defragmenter -> Defragment. Do a complete hard drive defragmentation. The purpose for this is a Defragment completely erases any cookies, etc, that were removed in an earlier step by overwriting the empty space were they did reside.

The Linux portion below was written with PCLinuxOS in mind. If you use any Linux with Synaptic the process is almost if not identical.

Linux TLC

Linux by its nature requires less care than Windows because it is extremely difficult to infect Linux with viruses, spyware, or malware.  One caveat is infected Window files will sit nicely in a Linux folder waiting to be opened up in Windows. For these reasons the frequency of TLC for Linux is less frequent and consists of fewer steps. Once you click apply, you can ignore the Laptop until you see a window appear with information and waiting a button press.

1. On either the bottom tab, or in the menu system click on: Synaptic Software Manager-> Enter password.

2. Click ‘Reload’ button [Top Left] (Wait for downloading to finish, usually about twenty seconds))

3.Click ‘Mark All Upgrades’ button (This will mark all files the Computer needs)

4. Click Apply.

This will begin the downloading of files, and updating. After downloading and updating is complete, Synaptic provides a summary page of the process.

If a window states all files could not be downloaded and do you want to continue, click ‘Cancel’ and try again later in the day or the next day. This window means some needed files could not be downloaded for various reasons. All other downloaded files will remain in a folder until the remaining files can be downloaded, then the upgrade will take place. This step is very important, never click continue if al files could not be downloaded.

If all files were downloaded and installed which is the norm, a summary window will be present. You may either read the process and/or close the Window. Occasionally the Window will tell you need to reboot for changes to take effect if a new kernel is installed. If so please reboot at the first opportunity.

Windows and Linux part 1

Windows and Linux Part 2

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Windows and Linux on Your Computer Part 2

Administrator or Root Verses Guest Account

You should never log in as Administrator or use your computer logged in as Administrator in Windows or Linux for everyday computing. Administrator account is all powerful and is meant to be used only for making important changes to your computer. Examples of important Administrator functions are defragging the hard drive in Windows, installing updates, and setting up internet access.

For day to day computer usage please use the Guest account in Windows and your user account in Linux. The best reason to use Guest account is due to the following scenario which is a common reaction among average computer users.

When logged in as Administrator in Windows (and Linux, but it does not apply the same way) on the internet, a pop up window opens stating you just won a prize, etc, most people click ‘Okay’ or ‘Click Here’ to close this window.

Because the Administrator account is the account being used, it is possible that clicking ‘Okay’ may install a virus. This can conceivably  happen because the Administrator is the highest level user and the popup now has Administrator’s permission to do whatever it wants.

Using the Guest account is a smarter and safer method. I use the Guest account for most of what I do in Windows when I use Windows. The Guest account does not have the same permissions as the Administrator which makes it safer for the computer. By using the ‘Guest’ account you are minimizing the damage that can be done to the Windows Operating system.

Using Linux is a little different. There are individual user accounts that each user should use, and only one Administrator  account. If you are in the guest account and going to do something only the Administrator can do, you will be asked for the password. This generally will not happen.

If someone wants to use a computer using Windows, have them use the Guest Account. If you let them use the Administrator Account, they can make changes and/or add and remove programs or files from the computer. If a virus infection happens, it may not be possible to undo the virus, and that is not good.

Firewalls

In Linux there is a basic Firewall installed protecting the computer from most common intrusions. The firewall can be customized and upgraded if you choose. In Windows the installed Firewall does not offer this level of protection. The Linux Firewall can also be modified to block certain websites and selected search words. There are stronger Firewalls for Windows, but usually they must be paid for.

Windows Virus Protection

On most of the computers there is very basic anti-virus software installed by Windows. It is important to increase the virus protection WIndows has with at least free and preferably commercial anti-virus software. No virus protection is completely safe. The best protection for your computer is a user that thinks.

If You Have Problems

If anyone installs copied or stolen software on the computer, the computer will get viruses or worse, and the Windows Operating System will eventually quit working. There is no easy way to fix a broken Windows computer and make it work again. Reinstalling Windows is usually the only choice, and is at least a six hour process if all goes well. Reinstalling Windows can take sixteen or more hours to do on a slow connection. I would rather spend my time on more enjoyable tasks.

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Windows and Linux on Your Computer Part 1

I wrote this as a general guideline for a project I am part of. This is a brief overview of Linux and Windows, and some simple suggestions for safer computing. Because I prefer Linux, it may appear to be a little biased. At the end are weekly tasks that everyone should attend to on their computer to keep it operating at its best.

Windows and Linux on Your Computer

As you have now installed Linux your computer, you will have seen a menu on the screen for a few seconds. This is the boot menu allowing you to choose between Linux and Windows operating systems. If you did not choose an option, by default you didn’t end up in Windows, but at the logon screen in Linux. Your computer is now two computers. You have a normal Windows computer you are used to using, and the default Linux computer.

Linux is an operating system like Windows, only Linux is better in many areas. Linux [generally speaking] does not get viruses, malware, or spyware like Windows. Linux will not slow down as Windows can from all the junk various Web Sites install or place on your computer.

Instead of a ‘My Documents’ folder Linux uses a file folder named ‘Home’. Inside the Home folder there is a folder with your user name and in that folder are (usually) more folders already created where you can store your files, or you can create folders of your own.

If you have other other users of your computer and you want to, in Linux, each person can have their own ‘Home Folder’ for their own files and settings. Each person only has their folders and settings and Linux looks they way they want it to. Users can also place files in a shared folder where any other person can see, open, and work with them.

In Linux you can burn CD’s, DVD’s, listen to music, watch movies, im, chat, and everything else you can think of doing. Software for doing these tasks is [generally] already installed.

You may have Open Office Org, which for general use is compatible with Microsoft Office. There might be minor changes with complex spreadsheets, or highly formatted word documents in Open Office Org, I am not an expert on it. I do my typing in a program like Notepad, so my documents are easily transferred from one computer to another without having multiple word processing programs installed.

With Linux, there are thousands of programs available for use and almost every program you want is free within limits. Because Linux does not easily get viruses and spyware, you don’t have worry about viruses like you do in Windows. You can even use Linux to scan for Viruses on the Windows part of your computer if you wish.

Linux program names are different from windows, some are not as polished, some are way better than their WIndows counterparts, though they all do the same things and more. Internet Standards and Microsoft Office Standards change very slowly, so everything one does in Windows is done in Linux too.

Internet

When using the internet it is best always use Firefox, or another Web Browser. Never use Internet Explorer unless it is absolutely required. Do let anyone else use Internet Explorer unless they have no choice. It is safest for your computer to use Linux and Firefox when on the Internet. Also follow these good habits when browsing the web:

A. If you are on the internet, and a popup tells you need to check something on your computer, click on the red X on the top corner of the pop up window.

B. If a popup asks you if you want to add a toolbar, or search bar, click on the red X on the top right of the pop up window. Never add toolbars or anything that claims to speed up your computer, improve file searches, or speed up downloads. Even if they have no malware or spyware in them, they will slow down your computer. Your computer is already as fast as it is going to get.

C. If a popup asks you to do anything else, click on the red X on the top right of the pop up window.

D. Popup windows from may say you have won something, or a friend is trying to find you, or you have been selected to get a free computer. These popups are trouble for your computer. Always click on the red X on the top right of the pop up window.

E. Never click on the words: ‘Okay’ or ‘Close’ in a popup window. Sometimes it does not mean Okay or Close, but means install a virus. All the programmer of the popup has to do is change the meaning of the ‘Okay or Close’ button to install a virus if the button is clicked on.

F. You should not use file sharing programs in Windows or Linux. File Sharing Programs use your computer whenever it is connected to the internet, slowing down your computer. Many of the files you get through file sharing programs have viruses embedded in them. File sharing types of programs use your computer as a mini server, partially taking control of your computer to both manage and send files to others, even when you are not using the program itself. You agreed to share your processor power on install.

If you do use file sharing programs, you are very likely to get a virus and eventually you won’t be able to use your Windows computer. Your Linux computer will should work as well as it did when you first turned it on because it does not have these issues with the big exception you are sharing your computer with the world as  a mini server.

Programs on Your Linux computer

The Linux distribution on your computer was chosen because it is almost like Windows. It is lightweight and suitable for older Computers too. When you use Linux you will find most programs do the same things Windows programs do, and more.

I put a number of games in the games section so there are lots of games to play. mostly they are educational in one sense or other. There are the other menu options too, same as Windows. Remember If you get on the internet using Linux, you can not get viruses, or otherwise harm your computer.

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Intel High Definition Audio and Alsa in Linux

If you, like me recently have purchased a new Laptop or Desktop with Intel High Definition Audio and use Linux, you are possibly more than a little frustrated with the silence.

I tried three of the top five distributions and my new Laptop remained mute even though all the outputs from various posted references appeared to show all was as it should be. The biggest discrepancy I could find was a rev difference between two Alsa files in one distribution that possibly may have been the cause of no sound problem per the web comments I found. Due to the fact, that three popular Linux distros had the same problem, I decided it was a not the reason for no sound.

Having thought about what was happening and remembering this happening in the past, I decided I might know what the problem was. In the not too distant past, it was not uncommon for Linux to not be able to use the latest and questionably greatest components. Sometimes, if you were an average user, you had to wait until someone with more knowledge than yourself bought the same hardware and either wrote or updated a driver to use it.

Such is the case with Intel High Definition Audio on my  Sony model vpceb23fm Laptop with an i3 processor, and other similar Laptop or Desktop mother boards using “Intel High Definition Audio” using driver: ‘snd_hda_intel’.

The fix in this case is Ubuntu Linux with help from Ubuntu Backports. I installed Ubuntu 10.04 64 bit, enabled Backports and installed the latest version of Alsa from the backports. After a frustrating week of wondering how long it will take for sound to happen, I have sound.

My hunch appears to have been right, only the software is already available, though it has not made it to the mainstream distributions quite yet. Fwiw, I read about upgrading Alsa directly from Alsa.org and doing a manual install, but the process seemed a little more complex than simply going through the few steps to do a manual install. I chose what for me was the simpler route first, and it turns out it works for my needs.

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