Holding a seance is a hit or miss proposition, with a miss being the more likely outcome. Ouija Boards should be avoided and can be dangerous because of how the process works. Ouija boards are generally thought to channel only low level energy, and are not suitable to contact anyone who has passed on.
Asking out loud for a sign from someone who passed on is common, and is a good option for many. People find coins in unusual places taking them as a sign their passed love one is around. Other people find things missing, only to turn up in unusual places, somewhere the object would not usually be placed. For example a ring is missing from the jewelry box, is found a few days later in a cereal bowl. Generally any object being moved has some connection to the person passed on or a close connection to only one person.
Other people say they are touched, or woken. People who experience this are not comfortable being touched by something or someone they can not see. After they become used to it many people say are comforted by the touch. A few people who claim to be touched by loved ones, say it happens when it is important they wake up because something is wrong. I know one woman who claimed her mother who passed on has woken her daily since she was sixteen, about thirty years at the time.
The easiest and thought to be the safest way to contact someone who has passed is in a dream state. Dreaming and meditation have a lot in common, but we all dream. Many of us do not have the time, patience, or make up to meditate and reach a state where we are open to other realms.
There are some steps that need to be done if dreaming is to be effective. Remembering your dreams is vital. We are so used to dreaming we never think about what we dreamt when we wake. Within a minute or two of waking our dreams have for the most part vanished from our memory.
To help remember your dreams there is no fancy tool, or technique. The only tool I know of is a notebook and something to write with. It does not matter how the notebook is made, and whether a pencil or pen is used. Only that the notebook is next to your bed, and easy to write in.
If you wish to keep a fancy dream diary, I suggest you keep a separate notebook. One for when you first wake up and write down your dreams, and the second where you can write down your dream from the notes you initially wrote. This way your notebook will always be next to where you sleep, and your diary will be neat and complete.
Make a habit of writing down your dreams within the first minute or two of waking. More than one dream may be remembered. Write them down quickly. Wait until later, and there may be a blank spot where the dreams should be. Once writing down dreams becomes a habit it is time for the next step. The next step is to take an active approach to sleep and your dream state.
Before getting ready for bed, determine a dream purpose. Let that purpose be as simple as possible until it too becomes second nature. Decide what your dreams should be about. Some of the simple ideas may be: conflict resolution, how to see something in a different perspective, problem solving, flying, or something that happens in dreams that is fun to remember.
It is important not to make your dreaming stressful. Simply let your thoughts flow, reviewing and comparing dream possibilities as they happen. Once a decision is made about your dream, let the idea go. Once in bed, and starting to fall asleep, think briefly about your dream purpose in the same way of remembering something is needed from the grocery store in the morning.
Within a short period, your dream notebook will start have dreams that are focused on the previous nights dream purpose. When this starts happening the time has some to start making a dream purpose of seeing and talking with a passed loved one.
The reason this works, I think is because the process becomes a shared venture. Being open and receptive to the idea of meeting and talking with someone passed, makes actual contact more likely. Both parties are taking an active role in the process which means less energy is expended by only one which makes contact easier to accomplish.
Some people have frequent dreams of family members and friends. Others dream of who they wanted to see, but they won’t communicate, and stay distant. For a few people, in one nights sleep, they get what they need, and find peace.
I hope you are one of the fortunate people and this method works for you if you choose to try dreaming someone into your dream. If after giving it a fair try and you do not seem to be making progress, I suggest you try learning to meditate. It may be you are not able relaxed enough to be able to be receptive as your mind is too busy on other matters.
