Make Your Holiday Meal Unique and Memoriable

I did something different this Thanksgiving day and it felt good. I did not do anything earth shattering,  such as feed many homeless people, or cook a huge turkey and all the fixings. Instead I had been wondering how to make Thanksgiving unique. How to make this Thanksgiving stand out from the normal holiday family feast.

This year I looked through the refrigerator and cupboards. I looked for foods that have been given by friends and family that have not been eaten yet. I thought making a Thanksgiving meal out of food that was given would add a special meaning to a special day we pick to be thankful.

Well, I don’t know how most people would feel about giving up their Turkey dinner for some odds and end that have been in the freezer or cupboards, but I found this Thanksgiving meal to be more special than the usual feast.

In truth I really enjoyed eating food family and friends had given us. There was not a lot of variety, but there was enough with the addition of side dishes and desert. It felt kind of special eating a meal that others had cared enough to make. I wonder if the Homeless feel this way on holidays when they are served a special meal.

I think what I really felt was gratitude.  Gratitude for others that cared enough to make something for me to eat. Eating this Thanksgiving meal really made this Thanksgiving stand out as being unique.  Maybe you may want to try it when you have your next holiday meal? Check your freezer and cupboards for dishes, jelly’s, and other foods that someone thought enough of you to make and give to you.

Include these items in your next meal and feel the warmth flow into in your heart, radiate throughout your chest, warming you, and making memories that will be there forever.

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Wall Street and Other Protests

Are the people of the Occupy Movements Americans? Are they people from our communities? I ask because I am curious what you think. Are these people our brothers, sisters, children, friends? Are they Americans. Are they our neighbors, or did they drop in from another country? Can you or I become one them? What if our circumstances become a little different than they are right now? How many paychecks away are most of us from losing everything important to us.

In the sixties when the Vietnam anti-war movement started, people protesting the war were looked upon as anything but Americans expressing their frustrations, angers, and fears. They were labeled as troublemakers, insurgents, foreign nationals, criminal elements whose purpose was to cause rife among the good people of America, and possibly attempt to overthrow the government.

When riots swept through the slums of Detroit, a group of people wanted the same basic rights as other people, they were labeled the same way. They were trouble makers, they were trying to go against the system, they did not understand that was just the way things were.

The picture being painted of the Occupy people is anything but good wholesome American people going after their share of the American Dream. They are portrayed as overly liberal, out of touch with reality, lazy, and trouble makers. Some critics have even gone so far as to say these people want to destroy the American way of life – whatever that may be anymore.  Is this the real picture of what they are, or is it the most convenient way to mold apparent public sentiment.

I would not want to be a recent college graduate today. College is becoming something for the wealthy, no longer meant for the poor student with only drive and determination to learn and no money. Who can afford college when they are taking loans for thousands of dollars a year, only to receive job offers after graduation for a salary that will take twenty years to pay off their loans.

I would not want to not be a college graduate either. Forced into working two or more jobs, not having a day off, or any chance of taking time off work for a vacation. Do you think the people who serve you every day are making enough they can live on from their one job? Ask them if they make a living from their job and they are living a life with a future.

If you are old enough, or if not ask your parents, about the fifties and sixties economy. People were paid enough that it was possible to have a successful future with only one person working in the family. Almost any job paid enough for a family not only to survive, but to thrive.

Over the decades pay has been whittled away to the point where it is normal for both parents in a family to work, and still not have a large enough income to live without outside help. Many families have been forced to depend on their schools feeding their children breakfast. The state is helping them with their rent money, food money, and other needs that one paycheck used to cover.

Maybe it is the Greed of Capitalism, the ignorance of the average wage earner, or the banking industry marketing credit as if money grew on trees. Whatever the reason we have become a people living paycheck to paycheck. If many of us were to lose our jobs, we are most likely to end up on the street, or living in a homeless shelter. That is our ugly reality if we dare look at it.

Maybe some of the Occupy Protest Movements are whining, sniveling, lazy, homeless, and crazy. Perhaps some of them protest for a living. So what? Perhaps some of these people see the reality of their future, and the future of others behind them, and the fiscal reality being lived by those ahead of them.

Real change does not happen when times are good. When times are good everyone is happy. Every policy is a good policy because we are all eating steak for dinner. When times are not so good and we do not even have meat on our dinner plate, we start wondering what happened. When life becomes painful, a few people start thinking about changing the system.

Maybe the Occupy groups do not know what to do. Maybe they are unorganized, maybe they have nothing better to do because they are unemployed and can not find work. Maybe they have a valid point. Maybe they are living what will become our way of life if we continue to ignore what we have done and continue to do in our society?

Maybe it is time we start to think about how we can change how we do things to make life better for everyone. In this decade and for foreseeable decades Americans have to compete in a world market.

Americans need to create a lifestyle where almost every job has a wage attached where people can afford to live on only one job. America has to start balancing the cost of education against the average wage. America needs to get housing costs  inline with today’s wages instead of selling the ideas of future earnings which have turned into vapor.

We have to accept the party for the near future at least is over, and we have to learn how to thrive and survive in a world that is not the world of forty, thirty, or even twenty years ago. Our throw away economy needs revamping. We need to start creating social change where we live out of our heart and not in our greed. We are all one people on one earth whether we live in America, Japan, China, or Greece.

Contact your Mayor and Councilman and let them know what you think about the protests of the Occupy Movement. Call them or send them an email. If you do not support, let your local government know these protestors should be disbanded and arrested. If you support them, let your Mayor know that you don’t mind they are camping in the park as protest.

Making healthy change is not fun. Healthy change is not easy. We must come to terms with what we are doing to each other, our future, and the future of our children. We need to grow our Ecoheart and create change to do what is right for most of us, and not what is great for a few of us.

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Crying EcoHeart

We are too selfish when it comes to the environment, people living in poor countries, our children, and future generations yet to be born. We want ours now. Those after us and those who are not us, well too bad about them. They are just going to have to get along with whatever they have, or more is the case do not have. It is estimated almost a billion, one billion is 1,000,000,000 people are suffering from malnutrition. Your neighborhood is not exempt from malnutrition due to the Standard American Diet, and production over nutrition.

We drive over-sized, overpowered vehicles because we want to, and it is a problem. We live in house larger than most two or three family homes in developing countries. We waste water, fuel, and food. We spend tens of minutes idling our over-sized vehicles in lines for food that is unhealthy. We do this because we are too busy or lazy to either get down, or make a sandwich or other meal at home.

Our weekly trash collection contains vast amounts of food that has either spoiled, or we do not want to eat. The rest of our trash is partially composed of packaging discarded from things we bought that we think we need. The rest is a mix of real trash and items that are still usable but we are too selfish to give them away, so we send them to the dump.

Our streams now contain hormones and chemicals like birth control pills, caffeine, anti depressants, and other medications our body can not use or we flush down the toilet. This added waste is on top of the millions of pounds of insecticide and fertilizer we dump on our lawns each year that washes away unused in the next rain.

Our lawns where our children play are hazardous waste sites. Herbicides and insecticides often are applied with the thinking that if the correct amount is good, more must be better. Over years, many lawns are approaching higher levels of contamination than identified  EPA Superfund sites.

Our interest in our children’s way of living and their children’s lives take second place to keeping ourselves comfortable. We pretend when gasoline out prices our budget, some other fuel will magically appear. Think about that. Why should an alternative fuel appear? Where is the incentive to produce alternative fuels? We drive around in huge vehicles, vehicles that can carry eight or nine adults for an average family of less than four.

We can continue to keep our head in the sand, pretending we do not see what is happening outside of our air conditioned and heated living spaces. We can play chicken little and generate media like these articles to produce fear, and cry the sky is falling. Or we can develop an EcoHeart and start living in the manner we are meant to live, being stewards of our living space, our country, and our world.

The stripping of timber in Europe led in part to the discovery of the Americas. One-half millennium later we have cleared so much timber for energy and building we are now becoming worried about developing countries wanting to do what we did. Of course these problems are happening somewhere else. We have our own sets of problems in our own back yard. What are you going to start doing? Will it be enough, and will it be enough in time?

 

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Listen to EcoHeart Calling

Our time of using Earth resources without thinking and without consequence is over. The only effective way to bring everyone together in aware and responsible Earth stewardship is to change how we think about each other, our responsibility to each other, and our responsibility to Earth herself.

Many of us think of Earth and all that lives on Earth as being something out there, extrinsic to us. We feel we live in here. In here is that undefined place that is not out there. This disconnect from the Earth has brought us to where we now are. I do not need to provide examples of what is wrong with our world. We each have our individual ideas of what needs fixing and what does not. We are well aware of what is not working for us.

What we do not share with each other is being part of the Earth instead of living in isolation. Until enough people feel they are an integral part of the earth instead of living separately from Earth, our Earth will continue to change away from conditions we need to survive and thrive.

One way or another Earth will continue on. The existence and quality of life of yet unborn generations of Human Beings depend on what we do. If we continue to live in our isolated world of one, it is probable we will cease to exist as a life form on Earth.

If we choose to adopt a better way to view our Earth. A way of living in which we are part of the Earth and not living in individual bubbles, we can start to undo our damage to our Earth. We will feel the urge to make a difference. We will start the cycle of changing the world back into a place we can all live in and enjoy.

It is not comforting for many of us to think we and the Earth are a package deal. We would like to think if we cease to exist all life and the Earth will cease to exist. Discoveries of life thriving where we could not possibly survive, and what we know of extinct species which did not survive when their world changed prove this is not true.

We are not a package deal with the Earth. We are one species among thousands and thousands of life forms on Earth. We can kill our selves off and become extinct. The Earth will continue without us.

It is time to pull ourselves out of the bubble separating ‘Me’ from Earth and all life. It is time live in a more responsible way. It is time to set our sense of ‘Me’ aside and do what needs to be done for the good of all, not for the good of a few. How do we do that?

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