Christmas is a chance for change

There is a Christmas saying that I believe says a lot more than the few words than it is made of. For many of us Christmas has turned into a time of trial and tribulation. Stretching budgets to the bursting point and taking on bills for presents we have to struggle to pay off. A little farther down the slide, is the ugly truth that anything other than the basic day to day needs is out of the question for some of us. For the unfortunate among us, there will be no presents bought, wrapped or given out.

The six word saying I am so fond of this time of year helps to remind me that Christmas and its sister holiday, New Years is about something different than how many presents you bought, wrapped and gave out and what parties you attended. I am reminded of the subtle nature of Christmas and New Years. I like to believe the saying brings myself and others who have said it to me to the basics of these holidays.

“Remember the reason for the season.” These six little words are a succinct sentence that packs more thought and meaning into a few words than opening up a hundred packages of all our favorite things. Whenever I hear this quaint phrase said, or say it myself, I am taking a journey back to the roots of Christmas and New Years.

A celebration of new beginnings and new hopes is where this saying takes me. When I was a child it did not mean much when I heard it. When someone said it, it felt more like a flip compensation for not buying presents. For some that is exactly what it was or is, yet for others, they are celebrating the season and giving a reminder all at one time.

They are reminding me, that it is not the number or value of presents I receive that matters, it is not even whether I celebrate Christmas or not, or whether the New Years is the best New years ever. They are reminding me to celebrate and rmember that our life is not stagnant and there are always new and exciting times to come.

When they say it, they remind me to think like a child, to find wonder and joy in my world. Even when my world does not seem to wonderful or joyous at the moment.

I was thinking about how lucky I am to be able to celebrate. How lucky we all are having a nice dinner, exchanging presents, or whatever we choose to do. How lucky I am that we were not in a war zone.

Remember the reason for the season, it’s not about presents. Rather it is about people like you and I, and those we care for, and those who care about us.

Enjoy your holidays in whatever circumstance you find yourself. There are only so many in your future and not one of them will be the same as this one. Remember the reason…

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Grateful for you during Christmas!

I have been thinking all week about what I could write that someone wants to read about that I am grateful for this week. I ran through my list of everything I am grateful for that I have not mentioned yet, and none of it seemed worth mentioning because it is too trivial, or important just to me.

Every day I sit at my computer I see a box of Christmas cards off to my left. They are not special cards, or expensive, just the every day run of the mill cards that we buy at the store to fill out and mail to each other. I imagine for someone who has never been in my computer room they would seem out of place. Whether it is January or July for a number of years now, they would see the same box of cards.

The reason they are here and not in a landfill a decade go is not because I filled them out and mailed them, is because I have not. I tell myself each year, I am going to address the cards, write something personal inside of each one, and mail them. Every day this time of year I tell myself I am going to do it tomorrow for sure. I started telling myself this year I was going to write them them tomorrow back in October. That way they would be ready for December, and I would actually mail them for once.

In the mean time every Christmas season I receive Christmas cards from family and friends. I receive just enough that the guilt of myself not sending any out again is enough to spur me on to keep that box of cards out until next year. Every day they are out, and I see them I am reminded of my family and friends who have sent me cards over the years. I am grateful for those who do send me cards every Christmas, and I feel guilty I never manage to myself. This year is going to be different, or so I tell myself once again. I am going to surprise everyone who has just about given up on me. I am going to fill them out tomorrow and have them in the mail.

I have decided I am going to do the same thing with the packages I never manage to get in the mail until after New Years. Packages are a lot different. The post office gets so busy this time of year, and the carriers are working a lot more than they should have to. Then because it is so busy, all packages receive some pretty rough treatment. They get thrown, slammed, and crushed. I do not want that to happen to packages I send, so I end up rationalizing why I should wait until after New Years to send them out. That is usually when my Christmas packages are sent. Around the fifth of January.

Now my shameful secret is out and made public about Christmas. I am one of those people with great intent, and terrible follow through with Christmas cards. If you are one of the people who year after year send out Christmas cards to people like me, I am grateful you are there and you send them knowing you probably won’t hear from me. I am grateful you think enough of me for whatever reason to know how much I treasure each and every card, and how bad I feel I never mange to let you know that.

If you are someone just like me I am grateful for you too. I am grateful for you, because the reasons I am grateful this week, will be perfectly obvious to you because you are just like me. Which ever group you are in, I am grateful you are there, and you do what you do. Keep it up, I sure appreciate you!

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Being grateful and working holidays

I have decided I would like to write about something I am grateful for. Today seems like a good day to think about being grateful, and write a little about it. I am grateful for most things in my life, and I thought picking something should be easy to do. But thinking about what I am grateful for, and actually writing it down seems to be two different things. There are so many things to be grateful for in life! At the same time so many of these things are so trivial compared to what I see going on in the lives of others. My life, like many people’s life is made up of a compilation of minutiae, and there is no one area that usually takes up most of my time. So I thought to myself what big thing am I especially grateful for no matter when? I will write about that.

Because the weather is starting to cool down, and winter approaches, I have been thinking about the holidays fast approaching. That led me to people working on holidays. I am grateful for those people who work on holidays. They keep convenience stores, grocery stores, and sometimes even the big stores open. I have been too spoiled on many holidays, so some holidays I forget to plan ahead. I get off work on a holiday, and I need something. I need gasoline for the car because I did not think the night before and I am driving out of town for the day. Or I have to get some eggs, milk, tortillas, or bread, because I worked all week and the refrigerator is almost empty. More often then not, there is something I need on a holiday – such is modern life.

Of course when I am not working on a holiday there is the movie theatre that is open because people are working. Maybe even book stores, and occasionally home improvement stores are open if they think they will do enough business. The list always changes of who is open on a particular holiday. This is great for me, because on a holiday when something goes wrong, breaks, or just plain needs fixing I can get it done. Being able to get a part(s) for whatever it is sure makes my life easier and I am grateful for that.

When I am working a holiday, it is just like any other work day. Well almost like any other work day. I am working and it seems ninety-nine percent of the rest of the world is not. On work days just like some other days, lunch time rolls around and I have no lunch. I sure am grateful for the people who work in the food service industry. They show up when they want to be home too, but they show up and I can have lunch. I know some people are working because it is not a holiday they celebrate. Others are working because they can not afford not to work. And still others are working, because like me when I work, they could not get off this time.

I mostly wish these folks did not have to work. I remember as a child almost no business was open on a major holiday. Perhaps one gas station would be open on any holiday, but that would be it. I remember feeling bad because I knew they were open just for people like my family when we went for gas. No one I knew traveled anywhere on a holiday, so it had to be people like us they stayed open for. It felt almost a little criminal to make them work when were enjoying a holiday. In most cases if we did not have milk, eggs, or whatever else we needed, we made do until the next day.

Times of course have changed, but my feelings about going to a store on a holiday have not. I still have a twinge of guilt when I have to stop for gas, milk, and such. At least now I have grown to the point where I am grateful for the people who are there for me on holidays, so I can get what I need or want. I am grateful for all these people who work holidays. If you are one of these people, thank you very much!

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