Be Meditating in Fifteen Minutes or less Part 2

Be relaxed. If you have music playing, keep it low. Have no singing or voice as vocals will distract more than help. Close you eyes softly and start repeating your phrase in your thoughts. Keep the tone low and soft.

After a number of seconds when you feel you can repeat your phrase and do something else at the same time, keep your phrase going and start listening to your breathing. Your breathing will not sound smooth and rhythmic at first, and this is the second thing you do while listening to your phrase, you smooth out and relax your breathing.

As you have your phrase going in the background and your breathing in the foreground slowly start listening for other voices repeating your phrase. This is a the third audible event you will do. Listen for other voices repeating at the same cadence you are in the background. It may sound funny to you, but voices will be there if you listen closely. Be aware of other separate and distinct voices repeating the same syllables you are.

You may hear many different voices, from both sexes, and all ages. These voices are helping you and are natural. Let the voices take over for you. Hear the voices repeat your phrase behind the sound of your breathing. The phrase is there in the background and there is no longer any need to pay attention to it.

You may start to see a visual pattern or possibly scenes. Your vision a movie screen – this is important, do not attempt to look around. Looking around or focusing on what you see may wake you. You are simply a casual observer. Let whatever you see flow across your personal movie screen without trying to interact with it. Look at what you see without thinking about it.

For me, repeating nonsense words starting with ‘B ‘, I will start to see shapes like individual honeycomb cells flowing outward from the center of my vision. Sometimes the shapes are solid and other times they are only wavering lines. They usually look like they are projected onto a screen from a movie projector.

If nothing happens to wake me, they go away to be replaced by other scenes. Some of them make sense, and some do not. I let them flow and change as they will. Once in a while there is a someone there talking to me. I listen without taking part in the conversation.

If you are successful to this point, and you have visual, and auditory going on, you have arrived! The surest way I know it is occurring is I feel like I am partially out of my body. If I am sitting, I feel like am halfway to standing. If that feeling happens do not think about it. You are only observing.

It may not feel like it, but if you experience the above you are in a meditative state! For me, the auditory phrases drop off, and as I mentioned the visual changes from moving shapes to scenes or appearances.  I let them flow and try not to interact with them or make sense of them. It is important to remain an observer.

Try not to focus on what is happening. Let yourself be an observer rather than a participant. If you are being spoken to, hear the words without hearing them. Simply let them flow through your hearing. If you are seeing images, do not contemplate what you are seeing, look without trying to make sense of what you see.

This hardest part of meditation is learning how to meditate. If you are familiar with the idea of Lucid Dreams, it is almost the same feeling. In a Lucid Dream you know you are sleeping but you also are aware of what is going on around you. With practice you learn to control what is going on.

It is almost the same with meditation, though you first want to achieve the state before you try to control the action. If you become impatient and start paying attention, or controlling what is going on you are back to where you started.

One final thought, though you can find hundreds of pictures of people in meditation poses. For now, leave the posing to them. What you need is somewhere where you are comfortable and not standing. Beyond that it is all what makes you the most comfortable as pertains to light, sounds, surface, and clothing.

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Be Meditating in Fifteen Minutes or less

It does not feel like it, but most of us have been meditating all our lives, we simply are not aware of it. We start as little kids. Those times when everything is quiet, or it was raining outside. Or in my case, when I was in school sitting at my desk daydreaming, wanting to be outside playing.

Everyone has been asked and also asked someone else, “Hello, are you there? I am, talking to you.” We are not paying attention, checked out, or are daydreaming. Different words to describe the same state. You are talking to someone and you realize that they are not paying the slightest bit of attention to you. They are sitting right by you, but you can tell by looking at them, they are miles and miles away.

If you have been trying to meditate and feel you cannot, remember times when you were the person who left the conversation and went somewhere else. What were you thinking about when it happened? When was the last time it happened? Was it quiet, noisy, busy, or still? Whatever triggered your leaving the conversation can be used to help you learn to meditate.

We all are different and we all have different ways of interacting with the world. For successful meditation, what works for one person, or several people may be totally wrong for you. Just because one famous person does something and it works for them, does not mean it will work for you. You may need a different setting, less, or more stimulation. Maybe you need music, running water, bird sounds, or kids at play in the distance. Maybe you need a dark room with complete silence. All of these settings trigger different reactions in different people.

This is what I do when meditation does not happen smoothly. Perhaps it will help you find a sequence to help you learn to meditate? I flood my mind with differing type’s of quiet directed stimuli. There is usually so much noise in our minds we are not aware of it though it needs to be quieted for meditation to happen.

First I decide on a combination of sound. I prefer a three syllable nonsense word that ends with a vibration syllable such as, eng, ing, om, or ong. The nonsense word, Beir-har-ing as an example word. Any three or more syllable word should be as effective as well as any other three syllable combination. If a syllable combination pops into your thoughts while you are getting ready to try meditation, use it instead.

Different combinations of syllables have different effects for me. I have noticed for example that nonsense words starting with a B produces red or orange images in my mind. Starting syllables such as, ‘bear, behr, beer’, all produce a slightly different effect on me in a way not related to the meaning of the sound.

The idea of stimuli appears to go against the norm, and that is ok. You want to achieve a meditative state, not ponder your life. This may be a modified form of EFT used for a different purpose. EFT attempts to engage all your senses and keep your mind busy while a unique thought is introduced in the background.

Learning how to quiet your mind for more than a few seconds is a job in itself, so why not try to use a busy mind to your advantage? Why not use a simple handy aid to make the process more productive and less frustrating? If you sit quietly and listen you will notice a steady stream of thought, sometimes verbal, sometimes not. It takes time to learn how to silence it, and is a big frustrater to meditating. Let’s try something I know works for me, starting with the next post.

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