Marion Jones Basketball Star

Congratulations Marion Jones, making the cut for the Women’s National Basketball Associations Team roster for the Tulsa Shock!

Marion Jones, the former Olympic sprinter is now the oldest rookie ever in the WNBA. I hope Marion Jones succeeds, and proves to be a long awaited inspiration for young women the world over who I believe she is.

Sometimes to get to where we should be, we have to go through any number of trials and tribulations. In some cases these challenges prove to be almost too much for mere mortals. For those that survive their downfall, a new opportunity arises. I hope this is that opportunity for Marion Jones.

For all of us, life throws choices in our lives that we are not prepared for. Sometimes our choices, no matter how sincere and well meaning at the time, go awry and we are left with tiny pieces of what was our life dream. It is not an easy matter to pull yourself up, put your life back together, and start out from the beginning in yet another quest to finish the journey long ago started.

The world needs role models, and unfortunately not all role models are perfect in all areas of their lives. Most role models are merely human. A few role models have made  grave mistakes in their lives. Others have made mistakes which in the end have only hurt themselves. Some have done both. Not all survive their downfall, get their life back together, and begin to create their destiny one more time.

I think I have been one of the few who have thought even in the face of strong adversity, and a few less than stellar life choices, Marion Jones will someday show her real self and become all she was meant to be. I hope this is the start of what I hope will be true.

Good luck Marion Jones, I am cheering for you!

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Marion Jones-Thompson, human being

I turned on the television today to watch Oprah. I enjoy the Oprah show, although I can not remember how many months it has been since I watched Oprah’s show. Watching the Oprah show today was one of those coincidences that made me go hmmm.

Marion Jones, now Marion Jones-Thompson was on the Oprah show, or should I say Marion was the show. Oprah and Marion spoke for the whole hour discussing Marion’s life, before, now, and her future.

There was another show on a few months ago that looked at some clips of Marion Jones-Thompson and some other people that were in the news. They studied their facial expressions and rated the believability they commanded, or not, when compared to their verbiage. Marion Jones did not fare so well in the show in a few spots.

I am sure there will be another dissection, slicing and scrutiny of what Marion said or did not say. There will be opinion formed and disseminated of how her expressions either fit or did not fit her words, and what her body posture reflected during the interview.

All of it means nothing, and that is how it should be. I doubt many of us are capable of conveying the real us in the same situation. Marion paid the price demanded for her actions, no matter how they came about.

The most visual and famous portion of Marion’s life has been erased from the record books as if it never happened. All her hard work and her incredible accomplishments officially never happened. Now since walking out from the Texas prison, Marion’s new future, and the newest chapter of her life began. What the end of the chapter is, or will be, should not be judged by her past. Her debt has been paid.

Marion Jones-Thompson while not having a clean slate, now has a slate that has been partially erased. Now the world will be able see the real Marion Jones-Thompson, and not the puppet with the puppet master pulling the strings and showing the world what she thought we wanted to see.

For perhaps the first time in Marion’s life, she will be on equal footing with the real Marion, and not Marion one of the worlds greatest athletes.

I will be here in my little corner of life, waiting to see what will happen in the life of Marion Jones Thompson. Now that Marion is free of the athlete persona she may have been uncomfortable wearing. Marion will now have the privilege of living life as Marion Jones-Thompson, human being.

I expect on some future date, I will be commenting on the accomplishments of Marion Jones-Thompson, human being, who became comfortable with who she really is, and not who she thought we should be seeing. When that time comes, Marion will have discovered her real personal power.

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Beijing Olympics, steroid use, DNA testing, and Marion Jones

I do not wish to sling mud, but the International Olympic Committee which stripped Marion Jones of her medals, may be throwing out the baby with the wash. They still have not decided who is worthy of the medals and redistribution of medals may not happen at the Beijing Olympics as many are hoping.

One of the athletes who stand to receive a gold medal stripped from Marion Jones, is, “…currently locked in a bitter dispute with the IOC over her eligibility to compete at the Beijing Games. …drugs rules violations after she missed a drugs test.”, according to an article by Karolos Grohmann – BEIJING, Aug 1 (Reuters). Another story released on the same afternoon, says she has been cleared and will compete.

Doing a quick search on the keywords, ‘steroid banned athletes beijing’ is the web version of opening Pandora’s box. Articles on world class Olympic athletes either testing positive or being banned for steroid use goes on for pages. Now that there is swim-wear for those that can afford it shave even more time off of incredibly fast times, it brings forth a nagging little thought about what the real difference is between steroids and a suit? On the side of steroids, they at least are available to almost any athlete.

Beijing this year, as in Olympic games of past years are sending very mixed messages. This year I read that some athletes can expect to have their DNA tested to determine what their real sex is. Being inspected in the nude is not proof enough of your sexual identity any longer. Makes steroid use a rather moot point when addressed from this level, don’t you agree?

I have to ask myself again, if I were a world class athlete where rumors are rampant that many of the world class athletes I am going to compete against are potentially using steroids, what would I do? There are only two real forks in the decision from my perspective. Use steroids and hope you are not found out, or do not use steroids and diffuse into the land of could have been, working a McJob, knowing you lost your shot at fame to someone who is as likely to have used steroids than not. When I think deeply about using steroids or not as a fantasy land world class athlete, it all comes down to leveling the playing field. The field is either level or it is not. Not being found out for steroid use does not make the field level, and possibly losing out to someone who has probably used steroids provides no satisfaction either.

Again back to Marion Jones and her situation. Marion Jones is serving penance for every athlete who either has or is bending or breaking all published rules in an ever more difficult quest to keep up with the pack. It still feels as if there was no justice in this situation. The sporting news was and is rife with many other athletes who either confessed to steroid use, or voluntarily stepped down from their sport and laughed all the way to the bank. What was accomplished by the sentencing Marion Jones received really?

The law was followed in one case and ignored in a number of others. Of course other names attached to steroid use are not important, after all they are just one name among many, it is safer after all when you are a part of the herd. The message from professional sports appears to be it is not the right thing to do, to really take a stand on steroid use and abuse in professional sports. The message I still see in all this controversy is once again, what matters is whether you are found out, not whether or not you committed the crime. If you are found out, then it may become a matter of simple economics. The world in general is very comfortable with law and economics.

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Heroic acts by non heroes

My heroes have always been a little tarnished. I published a past post about Marion Jones and the opportunity for her to become a hero now that she is making herself even with the world – or at least with herself, which is more important. I still believe what I wrote, and I think Marion Jones has started the process of rising above her current self. If Marion Jones continues there is no reason she will not be a hero to young people, and older people alike.

It is my belief our future is never written in stone. We each have our own obstacles to overcome and conquer. I believe there is a potential hero hiding in Marion Jones, and it will shine sooner than later. Unlike other current athletes who prefer to lie and hide, Marion Jones has nothing left to hide. Only opportunity for better things can enter her life, the worst will soon be behind her. Soon she will have paid her debt, and she will be able to wipe her slate clean. Then the real Marion Jones will step out, and start doing great things she may not even have dreamt of. Things we may never know about, and perhaps have no need to know about, but great things all the same.

There is an opinion that heroes do not come from tarnished lives. Some folks may rightly believe that to be a true hero, one has to be heroic in all aspects of their lives. What this does I think, is separate a few heroes from someone doing a heroic act. It is easy to be on the throne and do a great thing, it is much harder when one is struggling to be, and finding themselves in a position of contemplating a heroic act, and following through with it. It is even harder, yet greater when that act goes unseen and unnoticed.

If there are such people in the world who are heroes in the second sense, where their whole life is shiny and polished without a mark against it, and doing great things, I am all for them getting the recognition they deserve, and I applaud them. In my more mundane world, I have yet to meet any people who could pass this type of hero test. The everyday heroes I see in my world are more like the desperate thief Dustin Hoffman played some years ago where he was not a person anyone would look up to, but did something above and beyond him, quite by accident, and for selfish reasons. He became a hero all the same for a short time.

Most of the heroes I have seen are people who are in the right place at the right time, and do something above themselves and the people around them, when they did not have to. They were not looking for the chance to do something special. They did what they did without thinking. One heroic person I have seen had been drinking, another was trying to escape his life, and a third person was coasting along through life trying to be invisible.

What these three had people done with their lives up until that point was nothing special, and after the notoriety wore off they went back to what they were before, ordinary people getting through the day. In the space of those seconds when they acted heroically, they were above and beyond themselves. They saw something wrong that needed righting in an instant, and before they even thought about what they were doing, the heroic action had took place. I am sure when they realized what they had done, they were as shocked as everyone around them.

It may be thought of as less than stellar, but those heroes I have seen in action were ordinary people who had a moment of heroism, and then faded back into the ordinary life they were living before the act. I do think these are the best types of heroes though. These are the heroes that you, I and anyone else can be, if we happen to find ourselves in the right place at the right time.

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Marion Jones, hero to zero who can now look in the mirror

Marion Jones, wow what a person she has turned out to be! I am impressed with her true character. After over half a decade of trouble, allegations, and innuendo, she has come clean. There are many people who are thinking what a terrible person she is. Perhaps she was simply an athlete who in this instance wanted to win above all else? I am sure she went a long way on her accolades over these last years, a lot farther than she ever deserved for what she has done. For most of what Marion Jones received, Marion Jones probably can never make right with those who deserved it and until now were denied their right to fame and victory.

But the truth is out now. Marion Jones was a hero of many up and coming female athletes, and I am sure, some male athletes too. Hopefully most of those will be able to see her confession for what it is. A person who has done something very wrong and can not live with herself any longer and has come clean, hopefully in every part of her life. How much courage it took Marion Jones to stand up in front of the world and admit the truth. How much courage, knowing she would be looked down upon by the world, held in some form of contempt by family members, friends, fellow athletes, past sponsors, and supporters. Knowing that she may be facing a prison term. Knowing at best her future is very, very dim.

What makes Marion Jones’ confession so bitter is Marion Jones has had to live with Marion Jones all these years along with all the secondary problems she has wrought. I am sure as time goes by, she will be able to look herself in the mirror and like the woman she will see, but not for a long while yet. For the near future and much of her past, Marion has not been able to like the person she saw in the mirror. Now, all that is left is to wonder could Marion Jones have achieved most or all of what she did without steroids. I would like to think she could have, but neither Marion Jones, nor you or I will ever know. What a shame that such a talented athlete was put under such pressure to win that not only did she take steroids, but it took her until now to admit it.

I hope when people look at Marion Jones, they think long and hard about their own lives before they dismiss Marion Jones as someone to be despised for being a liar, for cheating the rightful winners out of their victory, and all that she falsely took from them that she did not deserve. It has taken some time, but Marion Jones has showed her true colors at last. Marion Jones could no longer live with herself as a lie. I wish her the best for her future which as hard as it will be, will be no worse than the past years she has already lived through. As an American, I offer the rightful Gold medal winners my sincere apology, and I hope they can still claim most of what is rightfully theirs.

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