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Psychic and Scared The Positives Part 5

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I have been written on mostly the negatives of being psychic and seeing things considered paranormal. As you work your way through all the unknowns of being psychic, there is a proverbial light at the end of the tunnel. It is however an individual opinion however whether the grass is really greener on the other side – pun intended.

Working with and improving your newfound talents opens up a new world not readily accessible to most people. If you are curious about your new world, properly using your newfound talent is rewarding, uplifting, and most importantly, self validating. Using your gifts for the wrong purpose leads to you being labeled as a fraud or con artist and putting yourself in a position where you can be greatly hurt or harmed, both psychically and physically.

The best learning is to learn about ourselves. Spending some time each day or each week reflecting or meditating leads to better insight about ourselves, our world, and our spiritual self. It may become possible to know and understand many of the spiritual mysteries of the world, religious mysteries and non religious too. Knowing things about our existence that others guess at.

Knowing, not guessing or believing something that may or may not be true brings a feeling of peace. You understand your place in the world and what you bring to the table to make life better for all. You no longer wonder about differences in belief systems. You understand many things considered supernatural. Knowing is within your ability if you choose to want to know. Knowing brings contentment to your life.

para finalI believe psychic talent is a mixed bag. On one side is some of the questions we ponder daily are answered. It is rewarding to be able to help people in certain areas of their life. It is rewarding to help people find reasonable solutions to their problems or pointing them in a direction where they can be helped. It is especially rewarding not to be scared of the generally unseen or unknown.

Learning how to be properly responsible is a secondary gift. Sometimes people do not want to know anything new, even though they say they do. Telling them something they need to hear but do not want to hear, only makes them angry and resentful. At times it is best to stick to the middle road.

Helping someone who has passed over can be very rewarding, especially if that person is in a situation that they can not rest from until they fix it. Helping someone who never felt quite complete become a whole person spiritually is also very rewarding, and satisfying.

Do not expect everyone you may help to be happy about the process. Sometimes helping people brings back memories they spent years forgetting, and although they may be grateful they now feel complete, they may not be happy with the memories that comes with that feeling. In time though people you have helped are thankful for the experience.

Learning the truth about our spiritual life or spiritual world makes life more exciting and more rewarding. Knowing our individual purpose or path is wonderful. We are not in our life by accident. We came here for a purpose and understanding what that purpose is and working towards that purpose is very satisfying. Knowing that we are not a world of billions of individuals living apart, but melded by shared goals and shared vision makes life fuller.

Of course for any of these things to be known instead of wondered, imagined, or read, one must pass a series of challenges or tests. As silly as the idea sounds, it is true. As a responsible adult you would not give children dangerous toys to play with hoping they will treat them with respect. Neither are the gifts you find you have complete and honed to their highest abilities. To use your gifts to their utmost, you should be responsible with them.

The first challenge is setting your fears of the unknown aside. You must be able to set fear aside and look beyond childish attempts to scare you away. Learning how to see the world in a new way without becoming overwhelmed or bitter is a beginning step too. You will need to have enough wisdom to know when it is a good time to be scared and ask for help, because something is beyond your ability alone.

In the world of the paranormal as in the mundane, no one is an island as much as it feels like it at times. We each have our own path to follow, and it may seem as if we are individuals, though really we are working towards a common purpose or goal. Using your gifts or talents properly instead of being scared of them is what you were meant to do. Your gifts when used properly will bring fulfillment and purpose into your life.

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Psychic and Scared The Rest Part 4

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Do you prefer to be away from people. Do you find people or places drain your energy, or when you are around people for too long you start feeling sad? Do you get depressed around crowds of people? Do you suddenly feel scared, or have feelings of dislike from certain individuals without any real reason? Do you know a person you are talking to has a hidden life they keep secret from others?

If so you may belong to a unique group of people who are known as Empaths. Empathy is picking up on and feeling emotion or other characteristics of someone or something. They could be standing right next to you or be far away, distance is not a concern. I think people who think they have been in contact with what are called ‘psychic vampires’ are likely Empaths who do not know they are.

Empaths usually do not enjoy groups of people, and are occasionally thought of as loners or distant. Empaths are sort of chameleons in they pick up and feel the emotions of others as easily as they feel their own thoughts and emotions. Generally these are the stronger emotions, such as loneliness, sorrow, wanting, and the like.

psy 7Someone who displays the characteristics of an Empath can be happy and having fun and suddenly start to feel lonely or depressed without any reason for the change in emotion other than someone they have an emotional bond with or a strong personality they have recently been in contact with is feeling these strong emotions.

Mainstream community thinking in general dismisses someone being an Empath just as psychic ability is dismissed or attributed as a lucky guess or two. For someone who knows they are an Empath, they have close up and prsonal understanding of what is going on around them.

Being an Empath is difficult as emotions and feeling need to be constantly checked against a personal standard because of the degrees of emotions. It is possible an Empath may feel sad over something that happened in their day, but their sadness in amplified by the feeling of another that inadvertently became part of their feeling of sadness without their realizing it even happened.

Of course on thought to be aware of is empathy can be mistaken for physical or emotional disorders that one may not even be aware of. Being an Empath makes life difficult. Unlike someone who is not, emotions or feelings should not be taken for granted as being your own, but examined as whether they came from an external source.

With enough practice in examining your own feelings and emotions, it will become second nature and you won’t even notice you are doing it. It is easier to manage the emotional roller coaster many Empaths find themselves on when they can quickly dismiss a thought or emotion as belonging to someone or something else, and not their own.

I think a number of people who think they suffer from depression, take medication that does not help, and have no physical reason to hold strong emotion are Empaths and do not know it. It may be people who think of themselves as clairvoyant, or sensitives are empaths, or perhaps empaths belong under one of those labels.

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Validation is important if you think you are communicating with someone or something. Being scared or nervous about what is happening to you sometimes makes for a loose interpretation of what you think you see or heat, though precision comes with practice. So it is with validating what you think you know. You may know the general subject, but miss the fine details if you are too quick to decide.

Spirits and other entities have been here as long as mankind has been around, perhaps longer. Ancient to modern day texts are filled with examples of spirit and human interaction. The Bible is full of spirit visits, demons, angels and hidden knowledge. Jesus is mentioned many times talking with spirits of one sort or another.

Ancient civilizations are well documented having seers, fortune tellers, and dream readers. Spiritual healing is common in both ancient and modern cultures. Today there are still ancient societies which know there are more worlds than the our one physical world.

Spirits do not go away because we grow up, or technology advanced. What has happened is most of us have become incapable of realizing they are around. Our parents became to involved in modern life, and forgot to teach us there is more to life than electronic toys.

psy 5We are told from early childhood the Boogie Man in the closet, Leprechauns and their pots of gold, and the Tooth Fairy are children’s stories, and nothing more. If we disagree we are told in a more firm manner. We are told that there is a God, but God is distant and uncommunicative with us. We are so conditioned we can not even hear God when we are spoken to. We think God left home a few thousand years ago. We write these things off to our imagination, or a trick of our ears or eyes.

We were all born with some psychic ability. Unfortunately by the time we reach adulthood, most of us firmly believe nothing exists unseen except a God we don’t know and Satan. We are conditioned to believe God is distant and quiet, and Satan is all too active attempting to trip us in up as we live our life.

For many people Satan is everywhere or nowhere. Satan is the bringer of everything wrong in our life, and God won’t fix it for us. Seeing a dead Aunt in the middle of the night is a demon in disguise trying to trick us. Truth is we have already deceived ourselves long before that happens.

We do not imagine being surrounded by angels, but we easily imagine being surrounded by demons. We are not, most of us aware of the two or more beings that are with us every moment we draw a breath. We think animals are inane, soulless, creatures, and we alone are the only creature God, if God exists has any interest in. We are so conditioned in our arrogance, most of us would not recognize Satan if Satan stood right in front of us and smiled for our camera.

There are multitudes of beings or entities living in and roaming around our world who can speak with us if they choose. Some of us can hear and talk with them too, even if we would prefer not to. Any living plant, insect, or animal can speak with us if we allow it, and they choose to speak. Other things we do not think of as alive also can communicate of we only listen.

People with paranormal abilities discover this and accept it. Some entities or beings have interests that align with ours, and willingly form alliances for our mutual benefit. Other entities have only their interests in mind which clash with ours, and they may see us as their enemy. Others are simply neutral.

Some beings are very unsociable, and will quickly let you know it. Others are chatter boxes and hard to quiet down once they start talking. They are generally like us.They have their wants and needs which may or may not be similar to ours. Those who have passed on and not yet started life in their new dimension can become pests or bullies if not quelled when they discover you can hear them.

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How do you decide if you, or someone you know is the real deal, scamming, or living in a fictional world? I had to figure this out for myself. I will share what I know with you with the intention that it will help you, or someone you know decide where they fit. It sounds simple and perhaps it is. It is not that simple when it is you, and you do not know what to do or where to look for help.

No matter how scared or confused you may feel over what is happening remember you are in charge almost without exception. The only exception I know of is if you were playing with what we know as demonic spirits. If you gave it permission to be around you because you thought it would be fun, you may have a problem now. They will attach to you, if you let them close to you, or you called on them for whatever reason.

Once they attach to you, they tend to undergo a personality change and won’t be the pleasant company you would prefer. You may need help getting rid of it/them unless you have a strong resolve. Not too many people have that level of resolve to deal with that type of spirit alone because they initially asked it to be a part of their world.

psy 3First and foremost, you must believe there is nothing to be scared of because there is not anything more spiritually powerful than you are. You are not abnormal, cursed, or possessed. There are lots of people who are just like you. They found explanations and you will too.

Nothing can hurt you unless you allow it to. No matter what you see, or hear, or feel emotionally,nothing can harm you unless you give it permission to harm or hurt you. You can demand anything you do not want around you to go away from you and never return you will be obeyed. Or you can speak to it, and see what it wants. Maybe it needs or wants your help to do something.

Do you have repetitive dreams, such as meeting the same group of people, or being visited by the same person with some frequency? They may not be scary dreams, but dreams that have no link to your every day life. You may dream about living somewhere you have never been. Or know about places and streets of towns or cities you have never read about before. You may dream about living in a different time or country.

If it is real, then it becomes a matter of is it something you want to get involved with or not. Tell yourself you don’t want these experiences and they go away eventually in many cases. If you were to meet someone on the street, you do not immediately trust them. If someone tells you something that doesn’t make sense, you usually do not believe them.

The same rules apply. Don’t be quick to judge, or quick to trust. Don’t believe what you see either. A scary or gross image, can as easily be a baby kitten, someone your age, or a lovely man or woman. Big, little, beautiful, ugly, or gross, it’s only an image for you to see. Our rules and our physics do not apply here. Sometimes the image is for showing what can not be said.

Can anything you believe you see, know, or hear be verified by someone else who does not have any interest in you? If you hear someone call your name from above and to the right, does anyone else hear it too? If you see visions, ghosts, people, or something else, does anyone around you see or feel anything as it happens before you tell them?

Do you know something you should not or could not know? Perhaps you know for example an incident in someone’s personal life. Something they have never shared with you or something that can be verified? Do you ever suddenly realize you know something about a stranger you just met? Do you suddenly know something about someone who has recently died because they just told you?

You need to determine whether what is happening around you is real, imagination, or coincidence. You should test it as you should test your beliefs. You should not believe anything is real or true because you want it to be. It may be you have an overactive imagination, or you cue off of something you are not even aware of.

You may have a medical condition that is causing whatever is going on. Do not take anything spiritual or paranormal at face value. Demand proof and be a hard nosed sceptic about yourself and your experiences. Once every possibility is eliminated you are left knowing what you experience (like it or not) is real.

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Some thoughts are harder to write out than others. This is one of the harder ones because it is complex, and many will not accept it even though they have likely experienced something they can not explain. They probably have never told more than one or two people about their experience either out of fear of rejection or other reasons.

It is always easier to deny than entertain what we think we know may not be correct. I was watching a television show about children who see spirits, are pestered by spirits, or are terrified by a spirit. As is the case with most people having this gift, they did not know what to do about it, and neither do their parents. These children are lucky, they were helped by a two respected psychics, an Empath, and others.

Growing up seeing things, hearing voices or your name called when no one is around is no fun as a child. Neither is having ‘imaginary’ playmates dressed in Navy Sailor uniforms who don’t care to play with you. It is harder when one of them does not care for kids.

It is made worse when both imaginary people tell you that about one hundred feet away beyond the lilac bushes is another person who neither of them like and to stay away from that area. Living with a ghost or poltergeist sharing your room, having visions – dead people (mostly family) coming to visit you is scary. In fact at times it is terrifying. Those are only the major events to help you understand this multi post.

psy 2Trying to find someone who understands anything paranormal and willing to talk about what is going on is almost impossible. Most people either don’t want to know, pretend they don’t notice, or are scared of what you may say while talking with them.

Clergy generally are of an opinion that it is either an over active imagination, health issue, drug problem, or a mix when venturing an opinion when asked for guidance. Eventually I found people who helped me, and shared what they knew to help me help myself.

With the internet and mega bookstores, there are thousands of people who claim to be psychic, or have paranormal abilities such as communication with the dead, or what we refer to as aliens. Others will guide you through your life, fix your problems or who knows what else.

Some of sources are total scams, some are looking to make a quick buck such as some fortune tellers, and some authors. For the most part these folks are self professed in the authors abilities, and self heavily marketed. Promises are large and actual content is a little light.

A few people however, even though they may seem a little over the edge when it comes to abnormal, are the real deal. They lived with themselves and their uncommon life until they could not take it any longer. At that point for them, it becomes a matter of accepting who and what you are, or losing yourself to the void. To the person who has to make that choice, there does not seem to be a lot of difference at that point and time. They found ways to make their gifts work for them instead of against them, and though they may be odd they do what they think is best for all.

It seems impossible to really know if what you (may) have experience(d) is real or not. Most people become scared and try to turn that part of themselves off like a water faucet, hoping they can turn the handle and it will stop. Some people like myself in the beginning, spend a lot of time scared of what they see and hear, and wonder about their grip on reality. Perhaps it is really is a bad movie playing in their head. Others do lose their grip on reality because they can not take it any more. They end up on some medicine or other because someone tries to make them normal when there was nothing wrong with them to start with, except knowledge and understanding.

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Psychic, scared and you. Something unnatural and really scary is happening in your life and you do not know what to do about it. You go to sleep one night, or are minding your own business and suddenly something happens that scares the heck out of you.

Worse yet, it does not leave or keeps coming back. This is a relatively brief, what you can do article if you are suddenly scared by visions, voices, sounds, supernatural, paranormal, ghosts, ghouls, vampires, werewolves, boogie man in the closet, or an unknown in the wall.

Whatever it is not of this world is scaring the heck out of you, and you don’t know what to do about it. Or if you think you may have sudden powers or gifts because of things that are happening to you, or around you and what is happening scares you.

This is quick reading for immediate help. Following this post will be a number of posts with better explanation, but due to total length it will be in several posts. If you are in desperate need of help, this will make it better for you quickly.

psy 1Now that the door is open, it is important to know you do not need to know exactly what you are or what is scaring you. You may be a Psychic, Clairvoyant, Empath, Healer, Sensitive, Medium, or other. What you define yourself as can be determined at some future point when you have the desire to decide who and what, or if you are.

If you are feeling overwhelmed or scared by voices, images, noises, whatever it is that is making you scared, you are be able to stop it, or at the very least slow it down to a manageable level. You will need to trust me for a moment and take a few minutes to be brave. Pretend that an Angel, your parents or siblings, trusted pet, me, or anyone you think of as strong is standing right next to you, ready to protect you.

Let your fear go out of your mind, there is nothing to fear. Take a breath, and tell it or them to stop, and leave you alone. Say it out loud and say it until you believe it. Be firm in your voice, and resolute in your mind. You may have to repeat yourself more than once. It may even take a few days before your message sinks in.

When you have said your piece, start ignoring whatever is scaring you. If it wants to cause you problems the intensity may increase in the short term, but will subside as long as you ignore it. Nothing you see, hear, smell, or touches you can hurt you.

When things start to slow down, you can begin to decide what you want to do next. For right now, don’t waver, don’t be scared, and don’t give in. You are living in this life in this time, and you decide what you do or do not want in your life. You are the only person who gets to decide what is okay, and what it is not okay for you.

If the above is not quite you, there is something else you can try. This is for you if your moods are effected without any known reason. If you start to feel depressed when you are around a group people for any length of time, or you do not like to be where people drink. If you are generally happy, and suddenly become moody without any reason. If you feel other people’s loneliness, and it effects your mood, you may be experiencing what is known as Empathy. All other things in your life being normal of course.

If this is you, this will help you. You need to build a wall of protection around yourself to keep other peoples, or things emotional states or projections from effecting you. You do this with your imagination and creativity. You are going to build a wall around yourself only you can see and only you know is there. The wall you are going to build is an emotion blocking wall. The wall is not a physical restraint.

Imagine a wall around yourself that you can see through, and others can see you through. It is so clear, that you are the only one who knows it is there. Make it out of energy, glass, air, a watery mist, anything you are comfortable using. Know it will be strong enough to block emotions of others no matter what you build it out of. Also know it takes nothing away from you to maintain your wall.

Think of what effects you the most and tell your wall you want that emotion blocked. If you find it creeps in anyway, add something more to your wall to keep it out. Perhaps adding a vacuum cleaner type device inside your space that catches those thoughts and blows them back out far away from you before they reach you.

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