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Psychic and Scared The Positives Part 5

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I have been written on mostly the negatives of being psychic and seeing things considered paranormal. As you work your way through all the unknowns of being psychic, there is a proverbial light at the end of the tunnel. It is however an individual opinion however whether the grass is really greener on the other side – pun intended.

Working with and improving your newfound talents opens up a new world not readily accessible to most people. If you are curious about your new world, properly using your newfound talent is rewarding, uplifting, and most importantly, self validating. Using your gifts for the wrong purpose leads to you being labeled as a fraud or con artist and putting yourself in a position where you can be greatly hurt or harmed, both psychically and physically.

The best learning is to learn about ourselves. Spending some time each day or each week reflecting or meditating leads to better insight about ourselves, our world, and our spiritual self. It may become possible to know and understand many of the spiritual mysteries of the world, religious mysteries and non religious too. Knowing things about our existence that others guess at.

Knowing, not guessing or believing something that may or may not be true brings a feeling of peace. You understand your place in the world and what you bring to the table to make life better for all. You no longer wonder about differences in belief systems. You understand many things considered supernatural. Knowing is within your ability if you choose to want to know. Knowing brings contentment to your life.

para finalI believe psychic talent is a mixed bag. On one side is some of the questions we ponder daily are answered. It is rewarding to be able to help people in certain areas of their life. It is rewarding to help people find reasonable solutions to their problems or pointing them in a direction where they can be helped. It is especially rewarding not to be scared of the generally unseen or unknown.

Learning how to be properly responsible is a secondary gift. Sometimes people do not want to know anything new, even though they say they do. Telling them something they need to hear but do not want to hear, only makes them angry and resentful. At times it is best to stick to the middle road.

Helping someone who has passed over can be very rewarding, especially if that person is in a situation that they can not rest from until they fix it. Helping someone who never felt quite complete become a whole person spiritually is also very rewarding, and satisfying.

Do not expect everyone you may help to be happy about the process. Sometimes helping people brings back memories they spent years forgetting, and although they may be grateful they now feel complete, they may not be happy with the memories that comes with that feeling. In time though people you have helped are thankful for the experience.

Learning the truth about our spiritual life or spiritual world makes life more exciting and more rewarding. Knowing our individual purpose or path is wonderful. We are not in our life by accident. We came here for a purpose and understanding what that purpose is and working towards that purpose is very satisfying. Knowing that we are not a world of billions of individuals living apart, but melded by shared goals and shared vision makes life fuller.

Of course for any of these things to be known instead of wondered, imagined, or read, one must pass a series of challenges or tests. As silly as the idea sounds, it is true. As a responsible adult you would not give children dangerous toys to play with hoping they will treat them with respect. Neither are the gifts you find you have complete and honed to their highest abilities. To use your gifts to their utmost, you should be responsible with them.

The first challenge is setting your fears of the unknown aside. You must be able to set fear aside and look beyond childish attempts to scare you away. Learning how to see the world in a new way without becoming overwhelmed or bitter is a beginning step too. You will need to have enough wisdom to know when it is a good time to be scared and ask for help, because something is beyond your ability alone.

In the world of the paranormal as in the mundane, no one is an island as much as it feels like it at times. We each have our own path to follow, and it may seem as if we are individuals, though really we are working towards a common purpose or goal. Using your gifts or talents properly instead of being scared of them is what you were meant to do. Your gifts when used properly will bring fulfillment and purpose into your life.

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Psychic and Scared Self Help Guide

My best to you and your new future as it unfolds before you!

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Psychic and Scared The Rest Part 4

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Do you prefer to be away from people. Do you find people or places drain your energy, or when you are around people for too long you start feeling sad? Do you get depressed around crowds of people? Do you suddenly feel scared, or have feelings of dislike from certain individuals without any real reason? Do you know a person you are talking to has a hidden life they keep secret from others?

If so you may belong to a unique group of people who are known as Empaths. Empathy is picking up on and feeling emotion or other characteristics of someone or something. They could be standing right next to you or be far away, distance is not a concern. I think people who think they have been in contact with what are called ‘psychic vampires’ are likely Empaths who do not know they are.

Empaths usually do not enjoy groups of people, and are occasionally thought of as loners or distant. Empaths are sort of chameleons in they pick up and feel the emotions of others as easily as they feel their own thoughts and emotions. Generally these are the stronger emotions, such as loneliness, sorrow, wanting, and the like.

psy 7Someone who displays the characteristics of an Empath can be happy and having fun and suddenly start to feel lonely or depressed without any reason for the change in emotion other than someone they have an emotional bond with or a strong personality they have recently been in contact with is feeling these strong emotions.

Mainstream community thinking in general dismisses someone being an Empath just as psychic ability is dismissed or attributed as a lucky guess or two. For someone who knows they are an Empath, they have close up and prsonal understanding of what is going on around them.

Being an Empath is difficult as emotions and feeling need to be constantly checked against a personal standard because of the degrees of emotions. It is possible an Empath may feel sad over something that happened in their day, but their sadness in amplified by the feeling of another that inadvertently became part of their feeling of sadness without their realizing it even happened.

Of course on thought to be aware of is empathy can be mistaken for physical or emotional disorders that one may not even be aware of. Being an Empath makes life difficult. Unlike someone who is not, emotions or feelings should not be taken for granted as being your own, but examined as whether they came from an external source.

With enough practice in examining your own feelings and emotions, it will become second nature and you won’t even notice you are doing it. It is easier to manage the emotional roller coaster many Empaths find themselves on when they can quickly dismiss a thought or emotion as belonging to someone or something else, and not their own.

I think a number of people who think they suffer from depression, take medication that does not help, and have no physical reason to hold strong emotion are Empaths and do not know it. It may be people who think of themselves as clairvoyant, or sensitives are empaths, or perhaps empaths belong under one of those labels.

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Psychic and Scared Self Help Guide

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Psychic, scared and you. Something unnatural and really scary is happening in your life and you do not know what to do about it. You go to sleep one night, or are minding your own business and suddenly something happens that scares the heck out of you.

Worse yet, it does not leave or keeps coming back. This is a relatively brief, what you can do article if you are suddenly scared by visions, voices, sounds, supernatural, paranormal, ghosts, ghouls, vampires, werewolves, boogie man in the closet, or an unknown in the wall.

Whatever it is not of this world is scaring the heck out of you, and you don’t know what to do about it. Or if you think you may have sudden powers or gifts because of things that are happening to you, or around you and what is happening scares you.

This is quick reading for immediate help. Following this post will be a number of posts with better explanation, but due to total length it will be in several posts. If you are in desperate need of help, this will make it better for you quickly.

psy 1Now that the door is open, it is important to know you do not need to know exactly what you are or what is scaring you. You may be a Psychic, Clairvoyant, Empath, Healer, Sensitive, Medium, or other. What you define yourself as can be determined at some future point when you have the desire to decide who and what, or if you are.

If you are feeling overwhelmed or scared by voices, images, noises, whatever it is that is making you scared, you are be able to stop it, or at the very least slow it down to a manageable level. You will need to trust me for a moment and take a few minutes to be brave. Pretend that an Angel, your parents or siblings, trusted pet, me, or anyone you think of as strong is standing right next to you, ready to protect you.

Let your fear go out of your mind, there is nothing to fear. Take a breath, and tell it or them to stop, and leave you alone. Say it out loud and say it until you believe it. Be firm in your voice, and resolute in your mind. You may have to repeat yourself more than once. It may even take a few days before your message sinks in.

When you have said your piece, start ignoring whatever is scaring you. If it wants to cause you problems the intensity may increase in the short term, but will subside as long as you ignore it. Nothing you see, hear, smell, or touches you can hurt you.

When things start to slow down, you can begin to decide what you want to do next. For right now, don’t waver, don’t be scared, and don’t give in. You are living in this life in this time, and you decide what you do or do not want in your life. You are the only person who gets to decide what is okay, and what it is not okay for you.

If the above is not quite you, there is something else you can try. This is for you if your moods are effected without any known reason. If you start to feel depressed when you are around a group people for any length of time, or you do not like to be where people drink. If you are generally happy, and suddenly become moody without any reason. If you feel other people’s loneliness, and it effects your mood, you may be experiencing what is known as Empathy. All other things in your life being normal of course.

If this is you, this will help you. You need to build a wall of protection around yourself to keep other peoples, or things emotional states or projections from effecting you. You do this with your imagination and creativity. You are going to build a wall around yourself only you can see and only you know is there. The wall you are going to build is an emotion blocking wall. The wall is not a physical restraint.

Imagine a wall around yourself that you can see through, and others can see you through. It is so clear, that you are the only one who knows it is there. Make it out of energy, glass, air, a watery mist, anything you are comfortable using. Know it will be strong enough to block emotions of others no matter what you build it out of. Also know it takes nothing away from you to maintain your wall.

Think of what effects you the most and tell your wall you want that emotion blocked. If you find it creeps in anyway, add something more to your wall to keep it out. Perhaps adding a vacuum cleaner type device inside your space that catches those thoughts and blows them back out far away from you before they reach you.

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