Make Your Holiday Meal Unique and Memoriable

I did something different this Thanksgiving day and it felt good. I did not do anything earth shattering,  such as feed many homeless people, or cook a huge turkey and all the fixings. Instead I had been wondering how to make Thanksgiving unique. How to make this Thanksgiving stand out from the normal holiday family feast.

This year I looked through the refrigerator and cupboards. I looked for foods that have been given by friends and family that have not been eaten yet. I thought making a Thanksgiving meal out of food that was given would add a special meaning to a special day we pick to be thankful.

Well, I don’t know how most people would feel about giving up their Turkey dinner for some odds and end that have been in the freezer or cupboards, but I found this Thanksgiving meal to be more special than the usual feast.

In truth I really enjoyed eating food family and friends had given us. There was not a lot of variety, but there was enough with the addition of side dishes and desert. It felt kind of special eating a meal that others had cared enough to make. I wonder if the Homeless feel this way on holidays when they are served a special meal.

I think what I really felt was gratitude.  Gratitude for others that cared enough to make something for me to eat. Eating this Thanksgiving meal really made this Thanksgiving stand out as being unique.  Maybe you may want to try it when you have your next holiday meal? Check your freezer and cupboards for dishes, jelly’s, and other foods that someone thought enough of you to make and give to you.

Include these items in your next meal and feel the warmth flow into in your heart, radiate throughout your chest, warming you, and making memories that will be there forever.

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Occupy the Street and no Turkey to Boot

It is a possibility, Lt. John Pike, the Pepper Spraying Policeman at the UC Davis Occupy Protest may be out of a job. No stranger to problems, this is not the first incident Lt. Pike has been involved in. He has a few previous marks on his record. In his defense, Officer Pike is an ex-Marine. He has my respect in that department.

What happens now if Officer Pike finds himself as Mr. Pike, unemployed because UC Davis can not afford him any more? A few weeks of unemployment and then what? Does he join the Occupy Protesters that he maced a few weeks earlier?

Earlier in the week, American Banks found themselves a little short on the America portion of their name. A four page memo was  found outlined how the Occupy movement should be handled, e.g., in the manner of a political opponent, rather than a movement of frustrated people.  You can read about it here.

Maybe this is a start for American business starting with affiliates of the Banking Industry and the Police Forces across our country to start looking towards their fellow Americans, instead of trying to defeat them and push them back into silence.

Here is the root of the Occupy Wall Street protest
in case you are unaware. I find it shameful that a few people with so much want even more. It hurts way down deep to know to these already very wealthy people  money is more important than the land they live in and the people in it.  Money is so important to them  they are willing to ruin America for a few dollars more.

If you are over fifty, poverty may be in your future. If you are under fifty, you may already be enjoying a life of poverty. The average American no longer has the cash  to shop our way out of our problems. I think we are in for some tough times while we work out our problems.  On the bright side some food banks had record donations this month, though most donations were Turkey free.  Nothing wrong with a Turkey less Thanksgiving Dinner I suppose. I have had a few myself in years past.

My thanks and gratitude to all of you who made it possible for hungry families to have food on their table this month, Turkey Dinner or not. Let’s develop our EcoHeart together and do what we can to help each other, and get our country, and the world back on to a better future for those coming after us.

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Thankful On Turkey Day In 09

It is almost the day of thanks in America. Thanksgiving is one of many days when I really look for those things I am thankful for that I may not think about often. It is good to be thankful for health, wealth or sustenance and family though there is so much more to life than that.

In my life, I have a lot of coincidences. How these coincidences come about is another matter, and not my intent here. A most recent example is a book I was looking for that I purchased and read a few years ago. At the time the subject matter was a curiosity for me. Now a few years later life has worked itself around to where the book is worth a re-read for me. I could not find it. I checked my bookshelves, I checked the books that I had placed in a box, put away for some future time and date. The book was nowhere to be found.

I decided I had lent out the book, or it grew feet and walked out the door. I thought I would try the library for a copy when I found time. I came home from work one day last week and there was the book next to my computer desk chair. All I can think of is my two cats for whatever reason were playing or searching for something in the area and pushed it out from its hiding place while on their quest. I am grateful for coincidences.

I mentioned in a previous post(s), but I spent some time in the military over seas. One Holiday in particular stands out in my memory. It was cool damp winter night and I was in a gate shack, the lone one man team on a deserted stretch of flight line. Around the middle of my duty the food panel van arrives. I thought a nice hot turkey dinner was on its way. I could not quite identify what it was I ate, but it was not hot, barely warm, and tasted pretty bland. I was feeling pretty sorry for myself until that spring when I overheard some visiting Army guy talk about his cold canned rations that comprised his Easter dinner a week earlier while he sat in a wet hole that passed for a bunker. Listening to him improved whatever it was I ate that holiday night immensely. I am thankful for having the opportunity for hot meals whenever I am hungry.

When I left the military in the early nineties, I was viewed by some as little better than a pan handler who saw the light and became a responsible citizen.

These days many people taking time from their lives to thank returning soldiers for their sacrifices. I am thankful that todays soldiers are recognized for the sacrifices they make and have made so our life can continues in whatever manner we deem right for us. I am thankful for the reception veterans receive these days. I am thankful for their sacrifices too. Unless you have served and gone over seas, it is hard to understand the price our folks in the service pay why we go on with our lives.

maimeI am thankful for those people who have lives filled with struggle and tragedy. They not only show me how to thrive and survive my own struggles, but also show me no matter how bad things are life could always be worse. Some people live their lives with emotional, physical, and other forms of debilitating problems and they learn how to succeed in spite of their handicaps. I am thankful for the depth and quality of their spirits to never give up.

Last, but not least, I am grateful for emergency services. The policemen, firemen, emergency room people, and utility workers. They venture where few mere mortals want to go. If ever I need their help, I am thankful in advance that they will do everything in their control to help me, not knowing anything about me, and not caring because I am a fellow human being. If ever I could feel empathy and passion as they do.

One last thought, if it were not for all the people who donate their time and energy, I would be writing this in a paper journal. I am thankful they have their passion. I am thankful you took the time to read this.

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Grateful on Thanksgiving, reasons for the poor

There sure are a lot of ideas about important issues in the world! Whether your concern is politics, religion, sports, global warming, or the black-bellied-dew-lover, there is someone out there who has a different opinion on the subject than you do. I remember being shocked in a college sociology class when one of the reasons given of why poor people exist was so wealthier people have a baseline from which to judge their success. I thought that was a very poor reason, but I am sure there are many people who need [dollar] poor people to feel better about themselves and their position in life.

Opening the door to discussion and poor people, there are many people in the world who believe in other reasons of why there the worlds poor exist. Some believe they were in a different reality or state of being before coming here. In that place, they plotted out their lives in great detail depending on what they need to learn or accomplish here on their earth journey. I can see how this thinking has appeal, as it is reasonable. It may explain why there is so much needless suffering and pain in our world, and why so little seems to be done about it that actually helps it.

Of all the people in these life situations, I wonder if any of them, even a large enough percentage of them to be a slight majority, feel they selected the life they are living? I can imagine myself, plotting out my life so it is comfortable, with a few bumps in the road, but overall an easy life to get through, and I have plenty of opportunity to accomplish what I think I should be doing here on earth.

I can not on the other hand imagine myself choosing to be born, live and die, in a nameless slum in a mostly poor, under developed country. Somewhere where I would rarely go to sleep wrapped up in the contentment of my life. A life, where many of my brothers and sisters, and friends, died from hunger, or other childhood diseases would be terrible to live through. Or even worse, be one of the many thousands in war torn parts of the world where I would have been mutilated, and disfigured because I have the wrong family roots.

What noble spirits these people must have if indeed they plan out their life in such conditions that even the poorest person I know is living like royalty compared to them! I like to think I am a somewhat caring person, and I try to make this world a little better every day. But if all those spirits who chose a life of suffering get from me is a lukewarm effort to improve the world, I wonder if it is worth it for them?

Then of course some people feel that they live an impoverished life because they need to learn something from it. Edgar Casey who’s writings I have a lot of respect for is in this group of people. I remember reading Casey doing a reading of a woman with polio who had a crippled hip and leg. Casey in his trance-like state told the woman she was crippled in the hip because in another life she was a Roman citizen of some status who laughed while a woman in an arena was being savaged by a starving lion, and her hip was crushed in that lions jaws. Casey said this woman was paying the price for her actions. This version of life carries a lot more meaning to me, and is also much more sobering idea than the previous version, and thinking about it too long makes it somewhat frightening.

There is another group of Christians who take yet another spin on this thought. They feel that the bible verse about the sins of the fathers being visited upon the heads of the son’s is directly speaking of karma and reincarnation. The problems we suffer in this life are a result of something we did within three previous lives of this life. This is another idea that when thought about too long could cause some long term sleepless nights for some people.

Just to round things out, there are the children’s stories, where bad people somehow always meet with a bad ending. Somehow these stories make life a little better, leaving me with the idea, that everything balances out in the end. As an adult, it is just defining that end point where everything works out for the best that causes sleep loss.

Today this day is set aside to be grateful – here in my country. Grateful I am, that if any of the above beliefs are true that I am not among the starving, the poor, or the wartime victims. I am grateful, for a life that is stable, and as secure as I have a right to expect. I have good, abundant food to eat, hot water, and clean clothes. I am thankful, that while I may not be doing everything I can to make the world a better place, I happily do enough to look at myself in a mirror, and sleep at night.

I hope your life is filled with things that make you content. I hope you can look yourself in the mirror and know that you do what you can. Perhaps every one of those beliefs is valid and true, only our view changes. If those people did before coming here, choose that life of poverty and despair for me to learn from, I hope I am a worthy student. Finally, I hope we both do not look down upon those who appear to have less than ourselves, and we do what we can to improve their situation, even a little.

As the saying goes, remember the reason for the season. Happy Thanksgiving!

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