Psychic and Scared The Positives Part 5

I have been written on mostly the negatives of being psychic and seeing things considered paranormal. As you work your way through all the unknowns of being psychic, there is a proverbial light at the end of the tunnel. It is however an individual opinion however whether the grass is really greener on the other side – pun intended.

Working with and improving your newfound talents opens up a new world not readily accessible to most people. If you are curious about your new world, properly using your newfound talent is rewarding, uplifting, and most importantly, self validating. Using your gifts for the wrong purpose leads to you being labeled as a fraud or con artist and putting yourself in a position where you can be greatly hurt or harmed, both psychically and physically.

The best learning is to learn about ourselves. Spending some time each day or each week reflecting or meditating leads to better insight about ourselves, our world, and our spiritual self. It may become possible to know and understand many of the spiritual mysteries of the world, religious mysteries and non religious too. Knowing things about our existence that others guess at.

Knowing, not guessing or believing something that may or may not be true brings a feeling of peace. You understand your place in the world and what you bring to the table to make life better for all. You no longer wonder about differences in belief systems. You understand many things considered supernatural. Knowing is within your ability if you choose to want to know. Knowing brings contentment to your life.

para finalI believe psychic talent is a mixed bag. On one side is some of the questions we ponder daily are answered. It is rewarding to be able to help people in certain areas of their life. It is rewarding to help people find reasonable solutions to their problems or pointing them in a direction where they can be helped. It is especially rewarding not to be scared of the generally unseen or unknown.

Learning how to be properly responsible is a secondary gift. Sometimes people do not want to know anything new, even though they say they do. Telling them something they need to hear but do not want to hear, only makes them angry and resentful. At times it is best to stick to the middle road.

Helping someone who has passed over can be very rewarding, especially if that person is in a situation that they can not rest from until they fix it. Helping someone who never felt quite complete become a whole person spiritually is also very rewarding, and satisfying.

Do not expect everyone you may help to be happy about the process. Sometimes helping people brings back memories they spent years forgetting, and although they may be grateful they now feel complete, they may not be happy with the memories that comes with that feeling. In time though people you have helped are thankful for the experience.

Learning the truth about our spiritual life or spiritual world makes life more exciting and more rewarding. Knowing our individual purpose or path is wonderful. We are not in our life by accident. We came here for a purpose and understanding what that purpose is and working towards that purpose is very satisfying. Knowing that we are not a world of billions of individuals living apart, but melded by shared goals and shared vision makes life fuller.

Of course for any of these things to be known instead of wondered, imagined, or read, one must pass a series of challenges or tests. As silly as the idea sounds, it is true. As a responsible adult you would not give children dangerous toys to play with hoping they will treat them with respect. Neither are the gifts you find you have complete and honed to their highest abilities. To use your gifts to their utmost, you should be responsible with them.

The first challenge is setting your fears of the unknown aside. You must be able to set fear aside and look beyond childish attempts to scare you away. Learning how to see the world in a new way without becoming overwhelmed or bitter is a beginning step too. You will need to have enough wisdom to know when it is a good time to be scared and ask for help, because something is beyond your ability alone.

In the world of the paranormal as in the mundane, no one is an island as much as it feels like it at times. We each have our own path to follow, and it may seem as if we are individuals, though really we are working towards a common purpose or goal. Using your gifts or talents properly instead of being scared of them is what you were meant to do. Your gifts when used properly will bring fulfillment and purpose into your life.

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Psychic and Scared The Rest Part 1

Some thoughts are harder to write out than others. This is one of the harder ones because it is complex, and many will not accept it even though they have likely experienced something they can not explain. They probably have never told more than one or two people about their experience either out of fear of rejection or other reasons.

It is always easier to deny than entertain what we think we know may not be correct. I was watching a television show about children who see spirits, are pestered by spirits, or are terrified by a spirit. As is the case with most people having this gift, they did not know what to do about it, and neither do their parents. These children are lucky, they were helped by a two respected psychics, an Empath, and others.

Growing up seeing things, hearing voices or your name called when no one is around is no fun as a child. Neither is having ‘imaginary’ playmates dressed in Navy Sailor uniforms who don’t care to play with you. It is harder when one of them does not care for kids.

It is made worse when both imaginary people tell you that about one hundred feet away beyond the lilac bushes is another person who neither of them like and to stay away from that area. Living with a ghost or poltergeist sharing your room, having visions – dead people (mostly family) coming to visit you is scary. In fact at times it is terrifying. Those are only the major events to help you understand this multi post.

psy 2Trying to find someone who understands anything paranormal and willing to talk about what is going on is almost impossible. Most people either don’t want to know, pretend they don’t notice, or are scared of what you may say while talking with them.

Clergy generally are of an opinion that it is either an over active imagination, health issue, drug problem, or a mix when venturing an opinion when asked for guidance. Eventually I found people who helped me, and shared what they knew to help me help myself.

With the internet and mega bookstores, there are thousands of people who claim to be psychic, or have paranormal abilities such as communication with the dead, or what we refer to as aliens. Others will guide you through your life, fix your problems or who knows what else.

Some of sources are total scams, some are looking to make a quick buck such as some fortune tellers, and some authors. For the most part these folks are self professed in the authors abilities, and self heavily marketed. Promises are large and actual content is a little light.

A few people however, even though they may seem a little over the edge when it comes to abnormal, are the real deal. They lived with themselves and their uncommon life until they could not take it any longer. At that point for them, it becomes a matter of accepting who and what you are, or losing yourself to the void. To the person who has to make that choice, there does not seem to be a lot of difference at that point and time. They found ways to make their gifts work for them instead of against them, and though they may be odd they do what they think is best for all.

It seems impossible to really know if what you (may) have experience(d) is real or not. Most people become scared and try to turn that part of themselves off like a water faucet, hoping they can turn the handle and it will stop. Some people like myself in the beginning, spend a lot of time scared of what they see and hear, and wonder about their grip on reality. Perhaps it is really is a bad movie playing in their head. Others do lose their grip on reality because they can not take it any more. They end up on some medicine or other because someone tries to make them normal when there was nothing wrong with them to start with, except knowledge and understanding.

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